My wife of 38 always want to fight with me on all pity issues how can i stop her & be happy?

Question

My wife of 38 always want to fight with me on all pity issues how can i stop her & be happy?

Answer 1

you should listen to her and treat her views as an important, moreover you should respect her and show concern.

Answer 2

First off, don't even try to stop her.... You will only open yourself to more arguments.

Did you mean pity, or petty? Regardless.....

The best thing you can do is listen to her. I know you probably already do, but continue to do so. You may want to try to tell her that SHE needs to be the one to let things go. The more a person holds onto something, the harder it is to let it go when the time comes.

Remember, it takes two to fight, so you may be enabling her to have these "fights" if you respond to her. Unless you vehemently disagree with her, you may just want to agree with her on everything. It's hard to argue with someone when they are agreeing with what you are saying.

Whatever you do, though don't fake it. Be sincere, and respect what her opinions are, even if you don't agree with them. People don't always have to agree on everything. By the same token though, you shouldn't disagree on a lot of things, either,

Good luck, and be patient....

Steve.

Answer 3

there is something wrong beneath the surface. She isn't happy. Stop being such an AFC and be a MAN.

Answer 4

Sometimes you just have to drop the gloves and take the 5 minute penalty.