My wife "wet' herself in front of me and is embarassed..plz help!!?

Question

my wife and me ,we dont drink..but it was her best frnds wedding and she insisted her to drink..and wife did..well soon she got high..so i had to bring her home..she was still high.wasnt getting ready to sleep..so i had to change her clothes and then we went to sleep..and then after a while..she lost her bladder..(i dunno hw to put it)..so i had to clean it up and we went to sleep in guest room..at morning i woke up ..she was silent..and she asked me wat happened last night..i told her as it was no big deal for me..but she is sooo embarased now that she isnt talking a lot..i told her its really no big deal..but she is very shy..and feeling embarassed..i tried to make her laugh but in vain..plz help me..its not a big deal!! hw can i explain that to her..wat would u do?..and women there would u really feel embarass in this situation if u were her???

Answer 1

yeah id definitely be embarassed. but she will get over it just try not to bring it up...like ever. lol.

good luck

Answer 2

i would be embarrassed, but i would also eventually get over it.  she will get over it.

Answer 3

if i did it and my fiance told me i would be embarrased but not too shy about it.....obivisouly i was so out of it that i just lost control, big deal it all happens...just hug her and tell her its no big deal, she must be a bit of a prude (not being rude) but she must think "oh my god i wet myself only babies do that" or soemthing so just tell her like "i really dont care hey, i still love ya heaps, we all human"

Answer 4

it happens to everyone at least once in their adult life.  just let her know that you love her, you care about her, and that no amount of urine, 3 AM washing machine loads, and Clorox 2 will ever change that.  eventually, she will get over her embarrassment and life will go on.

Answer 5

It happens to everyone atleast once.  And anyone who says they have never done it, is lieing.

I wet the bed myself a few weeks ago.  I had woke up needing to pee, but didnt want to get up.  I went back to sleep and woke up 4 hours later.  In my dream I was sitting on the toilet urinating.  In real life, I was still in bed urinating.  It woke me up immediatly, so it wasnt a huge mess, but we had to change the bedding.

My spouse had a bowel movement in bed once. lol.  Same thing with the dream. He had on under wear though, so it didnt get on the bed.

I have been a cancer patient for 4 years though, so I have learned to just deal with the gross stuff.  If you think about it, everything involved in being a human is gross, so, no point in getting wacked out over it.

Answer 6

try wetting urself but pretending it was an accident and maybe she'll feel alot comfortable w/ it.

weird but maybe it'll work..

GOOD LUCK!

=)

Answer 7

you are such a caring husband. lucky her.  

Answer 8

Put it in some different way. tel her you always were curious about this peeing thing, that you didn't know how to bring it up, and you'd actually like to see her more often.. when she gets to the toilet and all. perhaps this will make her feel more comfortable.. Those things happen.. if it were you instead of her.. she'd thought like there's not such big deal also. She may be very shy though. You;re her husband, and that is why you are.. cause you love everything about her.. even peeing after getting drunk.. if it doesn't work.. let it be, she'll get over it. Just be very affectionate, and care full to her.

Answer 9

Tell her that it is not uncommon for someone, that does not normally drink, to get so drunk that they are not aware of their body functions.  Tell her it could have been worse, she could have S**t!!!  lol  Tell her that if that is the worse thing she ever does in her life, she will be one lucky person.  At least no one else knows it but you and her.

Answer 10

tell her ur really into "golden shower" s*x thing. and tell her that its a real turn on. heheheh

if nothing else works, pee in front of her. :)

Answer 11

I wouldn't be embarassed, but then again my fiance and I don't get embarassed. We burp, f**t, pee, c**p, shower, whatever, do everything in front of each other. We are 24 and 25 now. But back when we were 18 and 19 we went out and drank and saw each other throw up and cleaned up after each other (depending on who was more sober), we took care of each other. I've had to put him under the shower and he's had to do that for me. I've had to get him undressed and he's had to help me.

I can understand why your wife is embarassed, some people are just a little...what's the word?...proper. I think that's a good word.

If I got embarassed I'd want my fiance to make jokes about it and get me to laugh about it so I'd see that it's really not a bother to him. But then again if you make jokes about it she might feel picked on. Depends on what kind of person she is. I'm a pretty loose, open type of person. She may be sensitive.

Answer 12

just give her time.... weddings bring out the best and worst in people, and there is no way of taking them back....

I embarase myself infront of my hubbie too often... there are just some things that time can be the only healer....

Random idea, have her watch one of the first episodes of "Greek" the one where the freshman during rush spit tecquilla on the girls face after l*****g salt off the belly....LOL....maybe she wont feel so embarraesd ... be like "well you never did that to ME" LOL lOL LOL....just continue to make it a light subject, and let it go after a few days...

Answer 13

Show her my answer.

People in families sometimes wind up sharing bodily functions that are usually kept private. Your husband sounds like a nice guy. He understands that you feel embarrassed, and he recognizes that this is a pretty trivial incident in the scheme of things.

Forget about it, and have a good life with your nice guy. I've been married to MY nice guy for more than forty years, and in the last two years, he had surgery for prostate cancer and I had my entire colon removed as well as a bilateral mastectomy. We did a lot of draining and wiping and cleaning up after each other, with substances that are more unpleasant than the output of a weak bladder.

Now we're both better, and we laugh about each of us wearing various pads, etc. We don't look bad, either, although we're clearly not kids.

Be well!