My wife say's she wants to sleep with another Man?

Question

Since her and I have been sexually deteriorating, she really wants someone to sleep with.

I gave her permission to do so.

There is no solution presently to this problem and all I am asking is has anybody else ever had their wife tell them that.?

Answer 1

If you're a good man and good husband, you chose wrong; let her go. If you question your own morality, commitment and ability to give, however, there's a book that's helped a number of my man friends save their marriage and revive their s*x lives.

The author is a woman named Laura Schlessinger. Men love her, as she accurately portrays a man's point of view and unspoken needs (given a man's tendency to not complain). It's called The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage, which she wrote at the request of her male clients. She also write a series with cheeky titles that, if you can get beyond them, contain nuggets of wisdom. If you chose wrong, you might read Ten Stupid Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Lives. I think the first few chapters talk about the White Knight Syndrome.

Answer 2

wow..... glad your not my husband and want to loan me out.... even if i asked such a thing... i would be totally crushed if you told me i could...... next thing you will be asking for her to collect money each time you "loan her out"...............

hello divorce...........

Answer 3

It never ceases to amaze me how stupid some people are. Just get a freaking divorce already!!!!

Answer 4

Are you a real man or just a weenie that will let her wife walk all over you?  

Answer 5

Wow! This wasn't even funny.

You should move out, and divorce this woman.

Man, that is your wife!

How sad of you!  

Answer 6

With your attitude, I'm surprised she even asked. Did you ever think that the brighter solution to your problems would be to just get a divorce now rather than later? I hope you work on this attitude before you get into another relationship!

Answer 7

Yes.  She's not a rag bag, pretty good looking with good size juggs.  She has been interested in a three way a long time now, since before we were married and I don't have a problem with it.  I don't have a problem of her sleeping with another womaneither, but I get to be there otherwise I won't get anything out of it.  s*x is good for the soul, the mind, and the body, so you should enjoy it while you can.  No, we have a pretty good s*x life and part of the reason is because we do some fantasy sharing and role playing.  Neither one of us is too inhibited and I'm probably the most jealous of the two.  A few years ago we spent a weekend at an invitational nudist club and it was great.  We stayed with each other, but if I turned around there would be a line of guys with erections trying to talk to her.  No fatties, no one under 25 and no one over 40, but I think there probably were a few exceptions to age.

Answer 8

Get a divorce already.

Answer 9

No, that is not Normal!!

Answer 10

Thisis probably not a good thing

Answer 11

I am ready to sleep with ur wife

Answer 12

"Rag Bag"  ??? Actually, pretty good name.  Exactly what is a rag bag?

Answer 13

Go for it; but you get to be there and watch.  Maybe it will recharge your batteries and your wife's batteries as well.  

Answer 14

Try this, might help:

http://www.videojug.com/tag/infidelity

By the way, excellent use of the term "rag bag".  

Answer 15

And you let her??  WTF is wrong with you, man??  Is there a problem in taking care that, for your wife's sake?

EDIT:  Ok, then.  Do what you feel might be best, but isn't it better just to divorce instead of pimping her out?  Just asking...

Answer 16

  your asking for trouble- if its that bad, you may just want to end it-  your going to end up in some love triangle mess and be the next Nancy Grace news story when something goes terribly wrong

Answer 17

Dont let the door hit you on the vigina on the way out.