My wife sleeps over at her friends house about once a month... should I worry?

Question

I've tried communicating to my wife about this, and she tells me that I'm being jealous. And I know what your already thinking which might be that we got some relationship issues, which I think we do. After 2 kids and her sleeping with one of them every night, I feel like we don't even know each other. Then she goes and spends the night at her girlfriends house, who's single, going out to clubs and partying. I guess the biggest thing to say is that I have no idea if I'm freaking out sometimes for no reason and let her go like I do, or should I start to look for another place and just take my chips. I don't want to leave these kids hanging, but I don't know what to do with a love that doesn't seem like love. Any help? thanks

Answer 1

I had a married friend who would sleep over gf's places.  I just don't get it, why would you want to act like a little teenager when you can spend the night with your man/hubby you can hold you close.

Fair enough you might have some issues to work out, but she shouldn't be acting this way.  What if the tables were turned, I am sure she would be ready to go off at you not being around for the kids.

Instead of saying why do you do this, perhaps explain that you miss her in bed, just holding her and things.  Maybe you could start by going on a "date" again to spice it up.

Answer 2

You will much happier if you dump her.

Answer 3

Don't leave the house!  If anyone leaves, it should be her!  It sounds like she may be meeting other guys at her friends, and much more than meeting, if you know what I mean!  Wink! Wink!  Get a PI, if you can afford it, then get a lawyer just in case she's banging someone else, protect your house, assets, cars, etc.!

Answer 4

The truth is she is cheating and uses her girlfriend as a cover. Call Cheaters.

Answer 5

No, a grown married woman does not do a sleepover so she can go party.

You need to take her on a date instead. Get a good sitter and go have a good time.