My wife tried to kill herself...?

Question

Okay,my wife,around her period she gets very depressed..and she hates herself everything about her..when i tell her i love everything about her..she doesn't beileve me..she was brutually raped when she hwas in highschool and she tels me all thetime that she doesn't deserve my love,but when shes on her period its worse.It makes me watn to cry to see her so down and out :(...the other night she was acting kind of weird and she kissed me and told me she loved me and went into the bathroom.I knew something wasn't right and I ran in there and she cut her wrist..i rushed her to the emergency room and they caught it just in time because she had lost over a pint of blood in just that short amount of time..i don't know but for some reason..when she did that...it felt like she didn't love me anymore..because that would have been a selfish thing to do..for me and for everyone who lvoes her..do i have a right to feel this way..

Answer 1

pray for her and take her to get help in a church or a therapist god bless

Answer 2

You have the right to feel how you want. You shouldn't have to ask that.

Answer 3

I am so sorry that your wife has chronic depression during her cycle. She should get counseling and seek a church community for support. Not only that, she should join a support group that helps with women's issues.She needs a close friend to help her out during that time of the month. There is also medications that may be able to help her situation. Try to put on her period times on a calendar (beginning date to end date) and see what triggers these emotions. Definately seek medical help for her.  

Answer 4

Please encourage your wife to get into therapy. She needs professional help. Should be a little easier after that incident.

You should also think about finding a neutral person to talk to as well. This can't have been easy on you - you probably need some support.  

Answer 5

No, you don't. Trying to make her live or behave in a way that makes you feel better is selfish on YOUR part. She is the one and only person who has the right to do what she wants with herself.