My wife wants me to say 3 words, what the h**l are they?

Question

She says she's feeling really helpless and lonely and depressed and insecure right now (she's disabled, and on top of it was injured in a car accident 2 months ago, wich she still has not recovered from) I cook, clean, work and take care of her. We have been married for 4 years now and she's never been so sad. She says if I say these 3 words and meen them she'll feel better.

I want so badly to figure this out (and no she's not playing games, she just feels if she tells me to say them it's not the same - which I understand) please help me help my wife, I want to see that beautiful smile!

It's not "I love you"

And when I do say I love you her clue is "you love me and?"

Answer 1

you are beautiful

you're the best

you are amazing

i always will

you're my angel

you complete me

Answer 2

1) Pull My Finger

2) Get if Yourself

3) Oh Shut Up

4) Oh h**l NO

5) Yes, I Farted

Answer 3

"I love you, and always will" ? maybe something along those lines?  

Answer 4

I think what she is wanting you to say is "I love you and will be faithful".

She is probably feeling less a woman right now, and needs the reassurance.  She is probably afraid that if you are unfaithful, you will grow to care more for the other woman than you do for her, then eventually leave her.  

If this makes you feel like she is questioning your morals, just remember, she is probably not thinking the most rationally right now, and under normal circumstances, she wouldn't need to be reassured this way.  

Answer 5

won't leave me.  She fears that you will leave her in this condition.  Rest her mind.  let her know you'll always be there for her.

Answer 6

I appreciate you.

Answer 7

(Do it yourself. ) That's what you should say. The woman sounds like a pain in the ... to live with.

Answer 8

WTF?!!

Seriously, it's "I love you, and... I always will."

Other than that, I can only think of "I'll never leave (you)." But technically that's 4 words --- "I will..."; and 5 if you add "you" at the end.

Your situation reminds me of the couple in the movie "Love Actually"... maybe there's something there...

Answer 9

YOU...COMPLETE.....................ME!!!...

Answer 10

YOU ARE AWESOME! Someone I cared about told me those words just out of the blue & I never felt so loved before.

By not being able to take care of her self & dependent on others is probably scaring her & she's feeling like she is a burden. You have to convince her that she is not a burden. Be honest, explain to her you are a man & are ignorant when it comes to these things & you need her advise now more then ever. When I was going through though times & my husband took over the household chores, it made it impossible for me to recover. He thought he was doing me a favor. He was enabeling me to recover, it made me feel like no one needed me or cared if I existed. Everyone needs to be needed. Not used though. Those house hold chores can wait, none of them really matter in the long run. Order take out, hire a maid to come clean once or twice a month if you can, it is worth the investment. She wont feel like she is being a burden. You may want to try laying next to her and reading a book to her. Buy her a journal & yourself one & read each others. Just spend as much time by her side as you possibly can just talking, this is the perfect time to really get to know each other. Talk about each others childhood memories, mother, father, grandparents, siblings, family vacation, holidays, traditions, stuff you enjoyed when you were young. She is scared of the future & needs a break from it.

Answer 11

I'll love you forever?

let's make love?

I need you?

I want you?

Answer 12

Every one has some words that help them feel secure. I don't know what those words may be I can only guess it would be about being glad she is in your life or that you married her.

She is feeling like a burden right now. She is more than acutely aware of all you do for her. Its hard being the helpless one. She wants to feel like she gives you something in your life as well. She may want you to say you need her. Do you? If the answer is yes, tell her and be prepared to say why, because she will want to know.

You and your wife have a hard struggle what with this injury but it can make marriage stronger if you have a belief in God and faith in the future. I will pray for you now.

Answer 13

you are beautiful??

Answer 14

I need you

I want you

You are beautiful

Answer 15

Did you do something that upset her?

I am sorry.

Answer 16

Alright check this out!

Theres alot of good answer here so this is what you say with tears in your eyes and your heart in your throat!

"Baby why are you sad don't you know i love you, don't you know i need you," Pause cuddle her hug her, don't let go of her, then say "I miss your smile so much, I love you, and i'm never going to leave you no matter what happen." +D

Just knock them all down at once!

or you can play that guild trip my boyfriend does on me when he saids something really sweet and it just makes me want to hold him evne tighter and tell him its okay because i see how sad he is =[ Hes good :p

Answer 17

I need you?

Answer 18

1. I need you

2. I adore you

3. turn me on

4. lets make love

5. I will forever

6. my nuts itch

7. and our marriage

8. and your body

9. I want you

10. i desire you

Answer 19

You are beautiful?

I need you?  

Answer 20

You Are Beautiful

Answer 21

I love you and will never stop.

I love you and will serve you.

I love and will never leave.

I love you and love this life.

I love you and you love me.

I love you and I'm so sorry.

Answer 22

I need you, I want you, I miss you, you are beautiful, won't leave you. I'm forever yours, never give up.  I AM SORRY.

Answer 23

It is obvious.  All women want to hear this as it helps build trust.

"I Need You"

You can love her and leave her.

You can like her and leave her.

But you can't need her and still leave.