My work-mate is into me....

Question

he called me his girlfriend back in march to another employee but it was explained to him that i am not single (or interested). he let it go so i didn't make a deal of it.

but lately he's started complimenting me and standing in my way so i have to brush by him if i'm in the kitchen. i want to catch this before it develops but i don't know what to do as i've never had this problem before. i only see him at the end of the night and maybe a couple times during the night and have never actually talked to him for more than 5mins. how do i get my message across? no mean suggestions please i don't want to be horrible.

(also i'm 17 and he's 19ish that why i put it in this section)

Answer 1

aww it sounds quite sweet, u guys r pretty young, enjoy it while it lasts, every lil crush feels great when ur younger, who knows one day ul prob wish it wud happen all over again lol.

y are u not interested in him anyway?

u have a bf already?

if u really want him to leave u alone witout being mean, u cud tlk to him a lil more...and keep mentioning ur bf.

eg if he blocks ur way...jus say oo u smell nice, wht is it? n wen he answers jus say oh yeh i remember...i got my boyfreind tht a few months bak. its really nice...etc

good luck lol  

Answer 2

just say "no your too ugly sorry"

then he will definately stopped talking to you.  

Answer 3

tell him that you appreciate his interest but you are in relationship and that you want it to be that way. IF he understands it, then he will calm down.

Answer 4

report him to the police and tell them his arrasing u or tell ur boyfriend and then he can nock his block off or tell ur family.

hope this helps good luck! :)

Answer 5

when he's around act like if he's not there and act busy,when he starts complimenting you just say a plain short thank you and walk off .

in time he will leave you alone.with the people you work with when they tell you things that he said just say that's nice and nothing more because they can be the ones that are pushing him to go for you!

co-workers like to see wierd people like him go after nice people like you.remember it's work you are going to have to see his face less drama the better. good luck

** then tell you're family member whenever he talks about you to say that you are in a realationship and you are happy and that you would not be happy to hear that he is into you.

Answer 6

Tell him ure no interested, if he doesnt listen go to ure boss that will stop him  

Answer 7

Tell him all about your 6'4" boyfriend who boxes in his spare time and who has a jealous streak right through the centre of him. You've lost count of the number of men he has turned into blubbering wrecks cos they flirted with you. That should do it!!!!