My x-frend is invited 2 a party my fam has. i rly dont like her, nor do othrs. how do i get her 2 leave party?

Question

please help me! i really do not like her. and she seriously makes me and my others friends not enjoy the party. she just recks it! its an annual party, and i really cant put up with this. my dad is the one that wants her family to come bcuz hes frends with her parents. ahh please i need answers, and fast!

Answer 1

First, I suggest you stay in school and learn proper spelling.

Secondly, as we get older, we're forced to do things we don't like.

I hate waking up at 6:45 and going to work every morning.  I still do it.  I think the same applies to your ex-friend.

Grin and bear it.

Answer 2

Well, I've been in that situation before, and I totally understand how u feel about that. But because it's your parents' party, you have to let her come. Do the mature thing: be a nice hostess, but you dont have to talk to her a lot. Offer her some soda or chips, etc., but you don't really have to hang out with her. If she's on one side of the room, go to the other side with your friends. If she follows, lead your friends to your room and dont let her in (its YOUR room). When she sees that your actions are much more mature and you aren't paying any negative attention to her, she will stop.

Answer 3

tell her that you really don't like her and you would prefer if she didn't come to the party.

Answer 4

It doesn't matter whether you or your friends like her or not really.

It's not your party and she has been invited, it's not like she is crashing it or anything.

Just keep away from her.  Don't be rude and don't be immature.  You are the bigger person if you act like an adult and not like a child.

There will be plenty of times in your life when you will be places with people you don't like. Such as parties, school and work.  You don't get to choose who you share a room with.

Answer 5

You have to decide that you won't let her ruin your day.  Mingle with other people at the party and try not to spend a whole lot of time with your annoying ex-friend.

Answer 6

Well, it took me a while to understand all the words you wrote in that funky spelling. You don't say how old you are but not knowing that information really doesn't make any difference.  You and your friends are acting like spoiled brats. Your Father invited the family to the party he was hosting -- not yours. So act like an adult and show some manners to your father's guests.

Sorry, my answer/opinion still stands.