My younger 3 year old brother gets all the attention and never gets in trouble

Question

My little 3 year old brother gets all the attention. Whenever he hits or kicks me they just kindly say please don't do that. it doesn't help!!! If he breaks one of my things i get mad, and my sister and mom just say that he's only 3.it's not fair!!!

Answer 1

this is very typical for lot of siblings and yes he is just 3 n doesn't know better so on ur own you have to teach him not to do things like hit you n such............give him consequences on ur own and teach him yourself

Answer 2

You have to understand that your brother is alot younger than you and that he will be getting away with things for a long time but if it is really starting to be a problem talk to your mother about it alone and very seriously. Maybe she will start to discipline him alittle more sternly. If not you may have to put your foot down as his big sister and put some fear in him to leave you alone. That doesn't mean beat him or torture him but think of something that would get him to stop hitting you. Be clever about it. Or you can try being his friend playing with him and doing things that he likes and he might stop hitting you and breaking your things.

Answer 3

Love your little bro he's going to need you someday I have a 3 year brother and a 9 year old brother I'm freaking 28 years old I dont get to see them I wish i could but they dont live here...So appriate him and just show him love build relationship that will last a life thats your blood and thats the most important thing ever in this world...From an older sister  

Answer 4

Your mom is a bit right....don't leave your things out where he can get to them.  When he kicks you, I'd suggest you look him square in the eye, and say, "Brother, we don't kick our friends or our sisters....if you kick people, it hurts them and they're not going to want to play with you.".....say this to him several times over the next week each time he does something to hurt you.  Then if he does it again, tell him, "Brother, I don't want to plaly with you anymore because you kicked me and it hurt."....then walk away from him.

It's very likely he is just looking for your attention and wants to get play time with you, so make a point of catching him in the morning or when you return from school and have a good time, then praise him for being friendly.  "I like to play with big boys that don't kick".