Myspace attack from a "younger" woman. What gives you think? ?

Question

I have been on myspace for years now. I use it as a networking and communication amongs from friends and family.

My friends son is on it as is his new wife. ( she is only 19 years old and his is well into his 20's )

I accidently sent out a forward called a "kiss me" application that went to everyone in my friends list. Including my husbands friends, family.. everyone!

I got a message from this young gal that said "I am the only girl who kisses my husband"... and I apologized and told her that I have known her husband sinc he was 13 or so.. and it was a complete mistake.... lol.

She emailed me back and said I was "disrepectful'!! I messaged her back and I asked her what she wanted from me? I told her that my apology was sincere! SHe then removed herself from my friends list.. which is fine.. I sent my friends son this and then removed him from my friends list too.

I am not sure but I think somehow I may of pissed of your wife. I am not sure why she was concerned that I sent out some stupid application from MYSPACE by mistake to everyone on my friends list.. if you look on her comments it went even to her.

i apologized and she sent me the message that I was disrespectful. No harm was meant, but if these kinds of accidents can cause this kind of stress in your home, perhaps it's best if I remove myself from not only your friends list but hers as well.

I personally can't figure out what caused the issues since I explained it was an accident, apologized and then I was told I was disrespectful.

I am TOO old for this bullshit and frankly I don't want to add stress where it seems to be already. That weird respose despite my apology was nothing short of middle school. Frankly, you have your hands full. .....

I just can't figure out this..unless this young girl is just a head case.

Answer 1

Remember this girl IS barely out of middle school.

She may feel insecure that you have know him so much longer and feel comfortable with him. And she is just young and immature. Just chalk it up to youth, take them off your list and forget about it. Don't let them stress you.

Answer 2

My guess is that perhaps her hubby did a little straying whilst on Myspace and got caught in the past.  You probably caught the wrath she should have bestowed on Chickie #1.

If you are too old for this, then you are too old for forwards.  Stop sending them.  They are annoying as anything, no matter what they are about and who sent them.

Answer 3

She responded like any other teenager who feels threatened.  Don't let it stress you out, but if you're "too old" for this bull----, get off.  You said what you had to say, stated your position on the issue, now let it go.

Answer 4

You did the right thing.  You made an innocent mistake, you acknowledged it, you apologised for it and that should have been the end of the matter.  

Your friend's son's wife comes across as being immature if she can't even accept a sincere apology.  I wouldn't spend another second worrying about it.

Answer 5

She is protective for a reason.

Could be that she's been cheated on before an dhas had litle things exclated to big things..

so I wouldn't take it personal..

she has issues she needs to work on, whether it's her own insecurities or actual valid reasons...

You should have messaged him...and not removed yourself..

unless it was agreed by him too, because it could have been a misunderstanding on her part, why let this issue get in the way?..

Answer 6

I vote for immature.  Clearly she is defensive, but she's only a little more than a kid.  It will be interesting to see how long the marriage lasts.

Good luck.

Answer 7

To behonest I am only on it for my kid, the rest is Bullshit, and if your wasting time trying to figure it out, its still BS.  I could give a rats behind for the rest of it, and if you know that to be true then why are you?