I have 4 kids, ages 6,5,3 and 2.. None of my kids listens to me :( I have tried positive reinforcement, I have tried bribery I have tried spankings I have tried grounding, I have tried removing all their toys.. I have gotten down on 1 knee and spoken face to face, I have used my FIRM voice..NONE of this has worked.. I find myself yelling by like 10am because Emily is provoking bubba into sneaking outside with condiments from fridge. Or Shayla destroying (yet again ) one of her books, tearing it up into a million peices,, Or whatever the case may be.. As soon as we leave the babsitters house my children scatter in different directions and i cant run in 4 directions at once.They run in the street... BELEIVE me i firmly tell them they need to get back over here and get in the car, but that would be to easy. No they are 15 blocks down the road by then..And running..skipping or playing.. Like they didnt even hear a word i said. If i say to sit down at the laundromat and watch cartoons they are all into the coffee machine, vending machines and everything except sitting down listening.. Ahhhh HELP!!! I really NEED to regain controll of the kids.. My kids do listen to their dad though.. But I firmly beleive its because he hits them..Hard.. I do not like this or agree with it but i cant tell him how to parent his chilren. He says i should hit them and they would listen to me also.. But they are afraid of him, i dont want that for me. I just want them to listen and behave.. Plus they would get less spankens from there dad if they listend..Any suggestions that work are welcome.. Thanks..
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