NEED TIPS PLZ HELP GUYS AND GIRLS?

Question

I'm 13 male me and my gf have bin dateing for 2 years and we are thinking bout stepping it up from just making out and stuff. im going to go and get some condoms and lube so im ready and i want to be safe cus i care about her alot and don't want to get her pregnant oranything. ive gotten just condoms before but i was with Friends and we were just messing around. so duse anyone have any tips to help make it less acward that it already is.

Answer 1

i'm 13 too. and if you have been dating or two years thts sence you were 11. really thats just puppy love.  

Answer 2

Don't have s*x until you can spell. Even after that. Seriously, you're THIRTEEN. Wait for about five years. You don't want a child, do you? Don't have s*x until you know you can handle a baby, and at 13 you have school to finish.

Answer 3

Don't do it. Here's the problem with the youth of today: they have a problem understanding that some things are wrong. I'm sure you don't want to hear the religious reasons, so I'll just tell you to wait. At thirteen, you have no idea what to expect from the real world. Things happen, so don't risk it.  

Answer 4

Jesus tapdancing Christ, you're 13! Wait about 4-5 years when you can spell. Stick to making out for now.

Answer 5

well... one way is that you could order them online

Answer 6

to be 13YRS OLD you're smart. you're SMARTER THAN HIGH SCHOOL KIDS. you're thinking ahead and doing all can to prevent pregnancy and std before you make a move.

Answer 7

could always have a friend get em for you hun. and don't worry. your girl want think its weird when you put it on. so many guys think that we think it is but we don't and infact (not the first time but later) we even like to help. . .  and we can get real creative with putting them on with our mouths and such too!! fun fun

Answer 8

d**n, 13? Slow down a bit, conventional wisdom is that s*x isn't even very good at that age. I mean, Jesus fudgepacking Christ, that's really young. Please, for all that is decent, wait until you're at least 15 or 16.

Answer 9

do you like go to school? cause dude my 5 year old sis can do better than that and we are home schooled so yeah everybody thinks that we live under a rock well we don't. but im 13 and 13 is WAY...... to young to have s*x i mean come on thats just stupid plus i mean if you don't get married to her then that will be something that weird with you wife if you get married but come on save s*x for when ur married you will be much happier trust me just stick with the kissing. hope ya listen to me!

Answer 10

dude seriously, i know you care about her alot and all

but your only 13!

youve got so much time for that stuff!

what are you, grade 7? grade 8?

really, like what would happen if she got pregnant?

or if one of you got a disease or something?

like i dont mean to be such a downer lol

but im 14

and even i know that thats too young.

couldnt you just do other stuff.. as in bjs, fingering.. etc lol

but if your really that determined to "do it"

then yes, deff use a condom

and she should probably be on birth control for about a month before you have s*x

and yes pull out too.

be VERY careful.

oh and as for buying the condoms.. just pick em up and throw them on the counter, i know its weird but you gotta do it lol

or you could get them with friends again

and pretend to be just messing around

but you know you actually want them haha

and if you guys do have s*x

dont go around telling everyone.

that will deffinatly come back and bite your girlfriend in the azz someday

:)

Answer 11

your so young.  I know, not what you want to hear.  I know you care about her but aren't there other ways to show it?  Condoms don't always prevent pregnancy either.  Think of ALL the consequences before doing anything please.  even if she doesn't get pregnant, s*x totally changes everything in a relationship and it's not always for the better.  Things can get really uncomfortable in a relationship after having s*x before you are both ready.  So if you really care about her and want to keep her maybe it's best to wait until you don't have to ask for tips on how to make it less awkward.