Naming the baby complications?

Question

So me & the father are not to together anymore...

its pretty final that we are not right for eachother!

and all we do is argue so how are we going to agree on names?

do we have to agree or do i have a right to call the baby what i like as the mother?

i dont know how this works?

this is my first and i never planned for it to be like this... so no rude comments please!

i need help not criticism!

thank you!

Answer 1

Since he is going to be in his life you probably should at least consider his ideas.  I would go to Nymbler.com and add the names you both like and it should generate a list that maybe you can agree on.

Good luck :)

Answer 2

You were not married so you can choose whatever names you like , and the baby can also have your sir-name

Good Luck

xx

Answer 3

decide the name that you like the most, then tell the father whats the name that you have chosen, and ask him if he has any sugestions

after all you are the one decide the right name

Answer 4

My baby would have the name I chose.  You can include him in the process or don't.  There's no law that says u have to.

Answer 5

I think that since you have ended the relationship and will have sole custody (I assume) you can ultimately call your child whatever you want.

If you are on good terms with the father and want him to be involved, maybe you could at least make a compromise and let him pick the middle name.  

Answer 6

You decide first name he decides the middle. Personally i think you have the right but whatever.

Answer 7

If he is going to be around then I think you should let him help decide. If he isn't going to help out with the baby then you should be able to name him/her whatever you want. Hope that helps.

Answer 8

My first line of advice isn't in regards to the name but more in regards to your situation.  In all honesty unless he said, "I don't want any part of this", I'd find someone who is willing to be the voice of reason to sit down with you two and decide how this will go.  You have more to worry about than just the name.  If he wants to be a part of this childs life, the two of you will have to learn to deal with eachother on tough issues, why not start with this?

If he doesn't want a part in this kid's life, that's his choice and the name is yours.