Nanny 911, my friends kids are horrible!?

Question

My friends kids are very badly behaved, I don't know how to tell her that her kids are little brats, so I wanted to call nanny 911, but all the shows say that the parents have to call. I love my friend to death but her kids, i just cant handle. She lets them get away with whatever they want, they lie to her constantly, and everyone has to put up with her children, but if our kids do ANYTHING she lectures them and gets an attitude with me and my kids, it's just not fair!!! They eat and drink whatever they want. If they order something at a restaurant, they change it at least three times on purpose, The girl blames stuff on my 4 yr old. She had bashed my oldest one in the nose with her head one time, everyone had to ingore the bad kid, later that day she kicked her in the nose again and like pointed at her and laughed because she didn't get in trouble again. I was so upset my daughter told me she never wants to see her children again... I don't know what to do, everyone I know has witnessed her kids, but in my friends eyes her kids can do no wrong... i don't want to ruin our friendship but, i don't want everyone including my kids to have to put up with them!

Answer 1

...I think you should just tell her what happened. Make sure you do it in a nice way though.    =]

Answer 2

It's your friend ruining the friendship, not you.  I would sit her down and tell her very honestly that you find her kids rude and disrespectful and that you don't want to be around them.  I wouldn't ever ask your kids to be around her kids ever again.  Maybe the dynamics of your relationship need to change so that the 2 of you spend time alone, as in with no kids.  Go to the movies or out to dinner, no kids allowed.