We have a fantastic nanny who takes amazing care of my son. She even makes baby food from scratch (of her own doing) and all our neighbors comment on how she's always singing to him, takes him for lots of walks, etc.
She has a few "old wives" ideas of things - for example, my older son caught a cold and she thought it was because they played in the water at preschool. But nothing that affects safety (she never put the baby to sleep on his tummy or rubbed booze on his gums or anything).
However, now I'm trying to gently convince her that my 8 month old needs to start eating chunkier foods instead of the extremely smooth puree she makes. In fact, I made some food over the weekend with some tiny soft chunks of carrot and potato that she immediately put in a blender and added liquid to make it smooth and even watery like soup. When I mentioned it, she said "Oh, it's healthier for him. It's too dangerous like that".
Okay folks YES, I am the parent and I have no problem enforcing my rules. I'm not asking you to tell me to suck it up and be the boss. My question for you all is how do you sensitively handle it when your caregiver thinks "your way" of doing things is actually dangerous?
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