Natural Charisma: Do I have it?

Question

Hello,

Just so you know a little about me: I'm 15 years old, a gifted writer and student as well as a talented public speaker and conversationalist. I know how to pretty much get along with everybody, am witty when it comes to the time and have a fervent interest in politics.

Now, not that i'm going to be JFK or anything here, but the main question I have is: do I have that natural charisma? My opinion is that I do, because I find people (not to sound egotistical.) are captivated when they hear me speak, and often are impressed.

I work with a local community teen group in helping the homeless and the elderly, as well as I have leadership abilities regarding organizing events and student governments.

But I have one flaw; I am bad at kid-to-kid socialization. To summarize it easily, my youngest years was spent with an overindulging mother and for a very long time now i've had to work that out. So, this stops me from being the 'life of the party' so-to-speak and even blocks me from maintaining normal friend relationships. It's a struggle to make a call to hangout on the weekend or to event relax on the phone. Most of my time is spent writing stories or thinking endlessly about relatively irrelevant things (haha) human life, politics, ect...

So, to go to my main question: Am I charismatic? Obviously, none of us (including me) can accurately tell but by the description i've told you of myself (and I hope it isn't too bias to the 'yes, you are'), do you think I am charismatic? Thank you.

Answer 1

Judging on what I read here about you, you surely are Evan.

So young and so mature and caring for others. At the same time, people like you and respect you for your efforts and your work. Brilliant.

Well done and keep going that way. I wish you a lot success and happiness and great achievements in life. You do promise indeed!

And you do have a charisma!

Answer 2

Humm...i really wanted to answer your poem, dear, but you deleted it! Here is my answer to that.

I really like your poem! Very descriptive and has a very nice flow to it. My favorite part is:

Fighting under the English flag while shooting my way through

Killing anything no matter what color, red, white or blue

red white or blue the colors of our flag. Very clever.

Definitely keep writing!

Soooo that was my answer!  But i also read your "question" here...My advice is...keep it humble! Arrogance will not bring you anything good. Just be humble and have a quiet confidence. That's all, hun.

Have a good night!

Answer 3

yeah ur perfect english is kinda scary lmao lol maybe u need to be more relaxed i c u as some kid wearing slacks and penny loafers just idk watch more tv to dumb you down lol haha yeah im good lol  

Answer 4

charisma isn'tt natural, first of all... you so much had said the same thing yourself... someone with charisma has well developed interpersonal skills. You have begun with the leadership classes and public speaking, now if you want to keep building you will definitely be charismatic at the crux of your endeavours, good luck! As for now, think of yourself as a waterlilly, you have just began to bud, but not flower, keep getting sun ( knowledge) and you will eventually flower. Good luck!

Answer 5

since you have to ask, nope.