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My sister always gets in touch with me when she needs me to intervene with problems with my mom and her.My Mom is judgemental and she needs a shoulder to cry on and ear to listen and I do that all the time.Her husband is an alchoholic and does not help in the home leaving her to tend after him like a a baby and shovel New England snow while he does nothing. He does not let her touch his money and she pays for all of everything. I stay out of her lifebut my mom isupset and does not like her husband so I listen.When I needed her as my mom made some comment to me and I emailed my sister and wrote:"Mom is now telling me how to run my life, I think she needs to get off the computer and email-----"My sister exploded at me telling me I need to listen to my mother (Gosh she did not when my mom told her to divorce the loser).I wrote her telling her I am not asking her to take sides- just I needed someone to listen to me.She wrote me she is not listening furniture . she told me she has to tell me Mom is right. I told her I will not bother her for a shoulder and not to bother me either. I said we are all we have but it is up to you to hold onto a relationship or break it. She told me to listen to Mom and she was critical of me. I told her I was not looking for sides- just to be there for me as I was for her.I said You did not listen to MOm when she told you to leave your husband. You came to me. I can see you are not there for me and its best we cool it. I did not talk to her a month. I have no desire to. She is now emailing me with " Miss you lets talk". I am at peace and do not want to answer her but feel I must. What should I write?
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