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Question

Ok this will most likely be continued in additional details.My daughter is really starting to NOT listen to me anymore.Its all because my little brother(19)'s girlfriend who recently moved in is spoiling her!I have continuously TRIED to be as nice to her as possible but it is getting to that point where I wanna knock her head off(my brother's g/f).MY daughter has ALWAYS been taught what is right and what is wrong and now that has ALL gone out the d**n window since this. My brother's g/f will PURPOSELY go behind what I say and do the complete opposite! If I tell my daughter NOT to go in their room she will turn around and tell her its alright and she can come in. If I tell my daughter NO CANDY she will give her some 2 seconds later when I am out of the room.Just tonight I told her it was bedtime(my daughter is 4) and she sleeps with my mom now since my dad died,well she wasn't going to bed so she had to come upstairs with me,needless to say that b*tch told my daughter that she can stay

Answer 1

I'd take her to the side and have a serious talk with her.

Answer 2

i know its probably the last thing u want2 do right now, but it would b a good idea to get 2 know her and become friend with her.u could disscuss with her what u dont like about what shes doing.she probably shoouldnt tell her that she cant spoil your daughter, just tell her2 balance it. when her baby is born u can set a good example4 her

Answer 3

So tell your brother's girlfriend that she needs to stop. You are her mother and she needs to listen to YOU. Especially if she is that young. It could get worse as she gets older if you don't stop it now. So just calmly tell her to stop.

Answer 4

oh wow that can happen

take her on day out full of fun do what she wants

(but limit the rules)

and during a lunch sit down and tell her (very nicely) why wont she listen 2 u any more and what makes her think that u dont know whats best 4 her and u know wats best 4 her and tha by listen u she is learning life skills 2 teach her children

and if she doesnt buy it

talk 2 ur little brother ask him 2 stop spoiling her and make limits if he says no

tell him 2 get out this is ur house and if he can get a GF than he should get a place 2 live 2

family is family but ur children r young and u cant afford 2 raise them like that

Answer 5

ok talk 2 her and ur brother let them know how u feel r when she do that u just repeat urself and say what did i tell u, she is not ur mother.

Answer 6

talk to her or have ur brother talk 2 her if that doesnt work kick her out thats the only way it will stop

Answer 7

All I can say is to sit down your brothers girl and have a serious one on one!!!!

Answer 8

you can tell his gf to knock it off. and if that doesnt work you can kick her out of the house