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Question

Met a girl at work shes 19 Im 26. She was with her boyfriend for 10 months but he does alot of hard drugs and drinks, and treats her like an ***. She called me one day and asked if she and her friend can come over to my boat house, I said yes. they came over and we drank and I fooled around with Kelsey who had a boyfriend She would let my hand wonder but when I was about to kiss her she said no she has a boyfriend and cant. Then the next day the boyfriend found out and yelled at her why she was at work. So she broke up with him then went with me. Month passes and we avoid will her ex. I met her parents who like me alot because I help her get off weed and drinking all the time. Kelseys choose not mine. Then one day we run into will her ex and she gets all those feelings back. so sum it up she told me where moving to fast lets take it slow. I said ok. then a week goes by and i see her with her ex driving by in his truck which I latter find out they went on his sail boat for three days

Answer 1

Cant imagine quitting my job over a girl. Look, Im 28, so its a been there done that kind of thing. Now Im in a relationship. Ive SEEN whats out there, and if this one suddenly doesnt work out (cant imagine this) I move on.

    Dont cling to this girl! Let her go! There will be others! She's undecided, LET her be undecided. Move on!!

Answer 2

just tell her how you feel about her ask her if she feels the same way, if try beng friends with her and work with her try geting a her a pressent on her birth day and criss mass and  shell fall in to your hands in no time.

Answer 3

It sounds to me like she isn't over him and it will drive you nuts trying to make her feel something for you that she doesn't. Move on and call it good.