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Ill give you the full detail so I get good answers this time lol. Ok so me and my x went out for 1yr and a half longest relationship we both have been in. He said I was his first love he broke up with me with no reason I still dont know the reason till this day but he was movin into his own apartment wit a roomate so I thought it had 2 do wit that wit stress or sumthing. He started goin out wit other ppl. I havent talked 2 him in over a yr. Just last week I saw him at the club he ditched his freinds for his girlfreind so i drove his freinds home which one happened to be his roomate so we all went inside his roomates apartment which is my x's apartment also I felt awkward being in there but his roomate said my x was staying the nite at his girlfreinds house so I stayed for a little then all of a sudden I hear the door and he stops and stares at me its a looong stare and I stared at him back he wasnt smilin or didnt talk 2 me. Then this week I saw him at the same club as last week I was by the exit I was gunna say Hi to him when he was leaving but he saw me and stopped and gave me a looong stare again and I would just look right at him he wasnt smiling or didnt say a word just kinda like a blank stare it was weird cuz it wasnt just a glance it seemed like 4-ever plus he stopped and stared at me so I didnt say a word either it felt 2 awkward so my question is what do you think all these stares mean?? I dont know what to think or what to do when im in that situation again.

Answer 1

ur hot marry me babe!

Answer 2

sounds to me as if he doesn't know what to say to you because he's embarrassed so he says nothing and stares. I would try to avoid him and if you do see him, walk the other way, As you can see he's moved on with his life and I doubt he wants his Ex  in any part of his life anymore.  So I would try to stay away from him & his friends.  Stay out of his apt even if it is with his friends (unless of course you're dating one of his friends which would REALLY p**s him off ) ..  Seriously I would stay clear and find a new route to go. He's moved on and now its time for you to do the same thing.

Good Luck  

Answer 3

maybe he thinks you are just trying to talk to his friends just to get to him.maybe hes giving you those looks because maybe he wants to talk to you but he cant because he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to ruin it by talking to you.or maybe he's just like"d**n this beezy crazy and why is she following me?!!".next time you should go up to him and ask him why he stares at you every time you see him.

Answer 4

He might think you still like him and are stalking him. He's not smiling at your or acknowledging your presence... so I think he's not to fond of running into you. Move on and find someone better.....

Answer 5

He probably still has unresolved feeling for you.  I've been in akward situations like that where I still had residual feeling for a girl and since we had the same friends we saw each other at a party or something.  From a guys point of view I would have to say this:  If he considered you to just be a friend now he would have no problem coming and talking to you and asking you how you've been and all the usual c**p.  Stopping and looking at you is kind of creepy but thats besides the point.  He obviously feels something for your other than friendship.  Either he still has feelings of love for you or resents you.  Or both.  If i was in his shoes I would feel a little caught off gaurd seeing you in my apartment one random night.  If it's been a year I doubt he thinks you're trying to stir up anything.  You need to overcome the situation and ask him whats up.  Go talk to him.  Ask him how hes been and don't try to pull any c**p if you still have feelings for him, just try and talk to him and get a feel for how he still feels for you.  Explain why you were at his apartment.  Consider it a funny story to talk about until he makes it seem otherwise.  Be careful though.  Guys are weird sometimes about stuff like this.  Feelings of love can easily turn into resentment even if you did nothing to make him feel that way.  Sometimes things that hurt us just make us mad and it's way for us to get over it.  Good Luck.  Hope everything works out for you.

Answer 6

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