Need Help Finding My Biological Father?

Question

When my mother and father were younger they got in a huge fight and my mom went off and slept with some mexican. But then about a week later they got back together and in time i was born. My father told me all this one day on the way to my pop-warner football pratice. He says that when they got back together they had s*x but he still dont know if he is my real father. I was 13 when he told me and im 19 now. My mother has yet to say a word about to me. Iv tried asking her the mexicans name but she says she cant remeber and then walks out the room. I cant get any answers from anyone. I would like to know who my biological father is, even though no matter what I will always consider my father the man who had the balls to raise me. I just would like to know because everyday since I found out it eats me. Is their anyway I can find out who my biological dad is? My father wont take a DNA test so thats not an option.

Answer 1

Without an answer from your mother you may never know. She holds all the cards. As for your dad not wanting to take a DNA test, he would probably be devastated if it came back that he wasn't your biological father. Unless your mother cooperates there isn't much you can do. What a great man to raise you! You should be proud.