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Question

There is this one guy I used to date which used to be a total sweetheart until he got what he wanted then he showed his true colors. . . a total player. Well, I told myself I would never talk to him anymore but for some unknown reason I still do, but I don't see him in person. I just communicate with him by AIM and texting. All he talks about is s*x, anything that has to do with s*x. For the last couple of weeks ive been really horny and I don't have a bf so I was thinking of hooking up with this guy but everyone says I will get attached again but I don't think I could with the way he treats me. Besides I already know he doesn't like me as gf material and that he would just want me for s*x. I don't like one night stands though and I wouldn't do this more than once because I'm not into FWB. I'm not really sure about this either because I'm worried bout STD's. Should I just forget about the whole thing?

Answer 1

Would you like herpes to go with that one night stand??

if not then back slowly away and RUN! okayy in  a rather better tone..you should definetley just forget about it especially if he is a player..and im thinking he isnt a good player if you know he is one..plus if he is like that theres a good chance you will get an STD.

Answer 2

yea i thing u shood forget the whole thing

Answer 3

in my opinion you should just forget about it cause as you said he's a "total player" so you have no idea who he's been with and who they've been with or what they have. besides he is probably just talking like that to try to get you to have s*x with him again...he's a jerk and you should probably just cut him off completely and stop talking to him all together

Answer 4

yes forget the whole thing.

Answer 5

You should just forget everything about him.It is kinda hard but you will get over it later.You deserved a better guy  

Answer 6

Yes, he used you so that he could put another notch

on his bedpost. You should not get together with him

again especially if your not having safe s*x. If he

didn't use a condom the first time then he won't ever use one and probably never has used one with anyone

before you which puts him in the category of "PIG".

Consider this: when you had s*x with him, you also had s*x with all of the people he had s*x with before you. That maybe kind of a hard concept to grasp at first but think about it. It would teach him a good lesson

if you played very hard to get and never have s*x with him again. As for feeling horny, have you ever tried

masturbation? It's a good safe alternative and noone

can satisfy a person as good as themselves.

Good luck

Answer 7

i dnt like playin FWBs either so id let it go

Answer 8

Leave him alone. You could do it with someone else that will actually like you and treat you with respect. Don't do it with him.

Answer 9

YES you should forget the whole thing! Do you need s*x that bad? Buy a d***o to hold you off till you meet a nice guy. Yeah I know that sounds dirty and disgusting but it sure beats one night stands or having to worry about catching any diseases. Good Luck.

Answer 10

Yes forget about him, lose contact. Hes trying to turn you into a w***e. And thats the plain truth. Nobody else may tell you that.

Answer 11

Losers like that aren't work the time. Don't give in, as much as you want to. Try to do other things to take your mind off of it. Wait for someone who is truly special to do you right :)