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Question

Im seperated for 3 years know and my babys dad asked me to go on a camping day this weekend with his family. I'm good with him but I'm not all okay with his famiy. He has begged me to go he say's that he want's to spend some time with me and our two boys. Please advise me in what can I do. Should I go or not?

Answer 1

Heck ya

My ex wife of over 25 years now  are still best of Friends

We have two boys one 28  the other was killed four yeas ago on his 22 birthday

Anyway  we decided many years ago    and was best decision we made

that we would not put the kids  or others  in the middle of our not being

able to be married

We are great Friends   but  man  don't put us in the same house as a couple  it don't work

Strange huh lol

We knew way back     that  we would both be a big part of our sons lives    We new many birthdays  holidays  graduations or special events would come  cross our paths

and we were  not going to let us  get in the way of  us

The boys  benefited also

People change   you know that    maybe its a blessing in disguise

that his parents and you  are in close quarters  for a short time

Your kids will love the two of you  together  

and it makes  the two of you being apart  easier to understand

they will grow  up  trusting that  their parents

still are  partners  when it comes to being there parents

Have fun

  

Answer 2

Only go if you want to. If you have a bad feeling about it and don't feel comfortable don't go. Always trust how you feel. Maybe you could comprimise and go have dinner or something and let the boys play, then after a couple hours you and the boys could go home.