Need a woman's perspective (men are fine too), can you help?

Question

Attractive 25 year old female coworker asked for my #, called me, we spoke on the phone about a week.

Had dinner, had plans to meet friends for drinks after...

After dinner, I had to change my shirt because I was still wearing a button shirt and I wanted to change into a t-shirt. She asked to see my bedroom and when I showed her, she took off her pants and jumped in bed... The rest is history. Well maybe not yet... She was into really kinky stuff (I'll spare you the details), Anyway, should I run like the wind? Was she just too easy?

Answer 1

You're just as easy as her! What makes her "easy" and makes you wonder if you need to run? Best be careful about sexually transmitted diseases!

Answer 2

s*x is s*x, if she takes the lead its ok, you had a good time and that’s ok

What you have to watch out for is if as they always do start making rules then its time to say good bye

Rules are ok if you both agree to them in the beginning

But some women think that because you have had s*x with them they then have the right to start changing your life, and the way you live

I’ve even had occasions where they try to change my wardrobe; this is them putting a stamp on a man, marking territory if you will..

So the long and short of it is you met an equal who knows her own mind, see it as just that

But keep an eye out for any emotional trips that may come along later, and if it rears its head, THEN you say BYE period>

Answer 3

To me she sound TOO easy.. if she started it and not played hard to get

Answer 4

It's too late to run; you already had each other.  Admit you wanted it just as bad or you yourself would not have jumped her bones.  By-the-by leave love out of it; love and lust hardly ever mix.

Answer 5

Your a sl*t too so why not?

Answer 6

I would run like the wind.  If she was too easy with you like that and flirts with everyone, then she probably did the same to god knows how many other guys.  You better hope you didn't contact any diseases in that hopefully one time.

Answer 7

If she flirts with everyone, chances are she does THAT with a lot of people as well. Be cautious.

Answer 8

Hmm...does she flirt with EVERYONE?

You were easy too...should she run???

Answer 9

The rest is history?  I am assuming that you had s*x with her lol so therefore that makes you just as easy if not more.  Maybe she just looked at you as nothing more than a sperm dispensing tool !!  It's just a guess.  Go with your gut... if you want to run like the wind then do so but don't use "she was just too easy" as an excuse because you're no better if you had s*x with her.