Need advice about life...?

Question

what do you do when you have had 3 deaths with close relatives and friends, a lot more emotional life-changing-for-the-worse stuff that i don't want to say, and now my parents are getting seperated? I need some uplifting advice please.

Answer 1

uh?

Answer 2

Well, this is life and life is stinkaroo. There's an old adage,"Time heals all wounds". I suppose this would apply in your case. Things aren't going to get better overnight but they will get better. Ride the storm out. Your parents are going through a tough time as well. They lost a close relative and now their mate is separating from them. Talk to them, please. They'll know how to comfort you, they know you better than we do.

Answer 3

keep your chin up, things will get better. Roll with it and your day will come

Answer 4

I'm sorry you're having to deal with all of this. My guess is that you're stronger than you realize. Think of the circle of life: for each death, there's a new birth. The next time you see a baby, remember the circle of life. Be thankful that your parents were together this long. Be thankful for good health and a pain free existence. Don't feel guilty for it like, "I should be thankful", but truly stop and soak in all that you have right now. Look at the people who do exist. Spend time with them. Make memories that will keep you warm when you're older. It's ok to be sad about all of this. If you feel like crying, then cry; there's no sense in holding it in. Pretty soon you're going to move on. It's likely that there are a lot of great experiences waiting for you in the near future. There will be troubles, too, but without them how would we know what's worthwhile?