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i ended things with my ex back in january..we were together for 2 years on and off...he now has a girlfriend and while he was going out with her he would still call me...so i had to cut contact with him...by him calling me made it worse...and it hurt...i finally realized that its completely over with and even though im over it i still wonder what he is up to or if hes still with that girl?? i dont even want him back...i just want him to regret losing a girl like me...do you think he will ever regret losing me?? ive been nothing but a great girl to him and i loved him and tried to make the relationship work but he wouldnt put any effort in it...i need some answers here..thanks

Answer 1

dr phil (who i DON'T LIKE) would say, "get over it, move on."

go out and do stuff you like.

you're sort of like an ex addict of some sort, "i just want to see ..."

don't.

there's bigger fish in the sea.

if you're that good to one who really likes you, how good will it be !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

I was in a relationship for two years and when it ended I, too, was very curious about my ex. I wondered if he was still thinking of me, if he kept the stuff I gave him--all kinds of really stupid things went through my mind. But eventually it wore off. The questions I had faded away as I realized how much better off I was without him. I hope you can do the same! It's ok to wonder--that's natural. I mean, if you lost a friend of two years, you'd still think about them, wonder what they're up to, etc. Just don't let the curiousity overtake you. I'm sure he's probably wondering the same about you--maybe that's why he called you even though he had a new girlfriend? Anyway, if it gets to the point where it really bothers you, talk to one of his old friends and ask how he's doing. Hope this helped. :)