Need advice on bestfriend..?

Question

well my bestfriend is a girl and about a year ago.. she really liked this guy and she sent him a picture of her chest.. and she found out he sent it to a fair bit of people.. now shes trying to get one of her friends to get a picture from him of his.. crouch.. and like.. how do i tell her that revenge isnt a good thing.. that it wont make things better it will just make it worse.. thanks

Answer 1

you could stay out of it.or tell her flat out.

Answer 2

It's her own fault......he wouldn't have sent it if she hadn't in the first place.

Answer 3

First of all, she shouldn't have sent him a picture of her chest. But that's beside the point. I would tell her that acquiring this desired photo of him and getting "revenge" would put her as low as him as she has better class than that. She should be the bigger person and take it as a lesson learned and stick to taking pics of puppies instead ;)

Answer 4

Yes revenage is not a good thing. She knew she was wrong on what she did , she's just trying to make herself fell better. Maybe you should a one one talk to her about you alls friendship.

Answer 5

just let her know that she better be prepared to have him take it up a notch if she does. his clearly insensitive, he wont care how badly her feelings get hurt. He wont back down and will probibly make a game out of it, it will no doubt escalate out of control. some lessons are harder to learn then others

Answer 6

just tell her

Answer 7

Tell her to be dignified and rise above it. If that doesn't work, tell her to wait until he's not expecting it, and find an original way to get revenge. Besides, he probably wants everyone to see his danglies.

Answer 8

You mean 'crotch' not crouch? Haha... yeah sorry had to point that out.

Err, why don't you just bring it up. But it was pretty stupid to send someone a picture of her chest.  

Answer 9

theres some horny people in this world.  

Answer 10

Honestly, if you tell her, she may just turn on you and do it anyway. Sometimes, its best to just let those around us fall and be there for them when they need us. If you feel like she can take the criticism, tell her about how you have gone through something similar, but not telling her she shouldn't do it. That way, you aren't coming down on her and you are warning her at the same time.

I can feel for her though. That guy and what he did was just horrible. Karma will get him, though.

Answer 11

once her friend gets that "picture" off of him, if she sends it to everybody, people will get mad at her, some might even get mad at the guy, the guy will try to get revenge, somthing bad will happen ect.  it'll basicly be a never ending chain of naked pictures, blackmail, and pranks.

Answer 12

as sad as it might sound some people will not discover certain things in life until they s***w up on their own.  its nice to look out for your friends but in the end everything they do is up to them, not you.

Answer 13

tell her to go watch john tucker must die

he will end up havin a huge d**k and no one will care

even if he does or not... hopeufly she wont keep up what shes doin

and honestly if she feels comfortable enough to show her chest to someone she just likes... she shouldnt have a huge problem with more... tell her to make him feel bad instead

like instead of havin him make fun of her or w/e

have her be like "im glad you did... shows me you think its hot"

and dont let her do it again lol