Need advice on my (possibly) first girlfriend ?

Question

At the start of college last year, i met this girl i really liked, and we started talking, within 2 weeks i told her i liked her ( my mistake, i think i talked too soon). So of course , she says let's just be friends.

After that i backed off, i mean really backed off. Then closer to the end of first year she started calling me, and we began talking again. She travelled for the summer, and actually called me over the weekend, to say that she's back.

And we just talked again.

I feel smug, this is progressing nicely. So, how do i keep this up/ not mess it up.

p.s. her parents are native of another country, so chances are she'll be going back to her country after college, to live her adult life.

So, how do i make the most of this?

Any insight as to why she's began to open up to me (not that i don't like it :)?

Answer 1

Simply be yourself and enjoy the times you spend with her. Make the most of your time together, especially if she may be moving back to her native country eventually. The best thing is possibly not to have any outbursts about how you feel about her, let her see for herself and if she's interested she'll let you know, either by actions or by telling you. But to prevent risk of scaring her off, or ruining your friendship, you'd be best to simply be yourself and enjoy your time together. I hope it all goes well for the both of you (:

Answer 2

Relax, looks like you haven't been on a date yet?

Letting you know she was back does confirm she likes talking and your company.

Stop worrying about her leaving after her education is over and get to know her and ask her out on a date. Find out is she likes you as a bf ?

If you take it any slower she have her degree and be married in her place of birth.

Answer 3

Well at first u probably scared her an by her being from somewhere else thats not what  she is use to. So maybe she went an did some research an found out Hey its ok to date so then she went an found u to make it  offical She may feel like there's a little trust bond with u an even though u may say stupid things that scare her. She love to be ur friend

Answer 4

What culture is she from?  It's unusual for a woman to not appreciate a man's direct nature.

Answer 5

Well if she's calling obvious she does like you a little what's i'm going to tell you is don't panic about it. Just relax and if she accepts who you are nothing will overcome that, thinking about not s******g up will eventually end up s******g yourself. If you show that you're confident everything will be alright.

Answer 6

Take her out to the movies then after take her back to your place and just talk for a while (and make sure she has a good time). In a few days she'll probably realize that your a really  good guy.  And if u go out on another date kind of put ur arm around her or something to show her that u care. If she lets u put ur arms around her then mabey on date 3 give her  a kiss not anything serious just a peck if she seems like she like it u can go from there.