Need advice on not loosing temper! Read description?

Question

Ok so heres the deal, my dads an alcholic, and mom mostly NEVER comes home! I need some advice! the house is a disaster and whenever i try to clean my dad gets drunk and screws it up again. At least 2 times a day ill go into my room and just sit on the ground and cry, i just wanna pull my hair out! I have thaught about running away but couldn't think of where to go. So please help. Oh and im only 14 years old.

Answer 1

typical american family, kid. sorry ur in such a situation, try finding something to do to occupy urself and just do well in school so u can go on to college with a scholarship and get out of ur house. if u feel it's really bad, tell a teach/counsulor and contact a social worker, but that can errupt into a huge mess.

best of luck, if u need to, u can email me. ^_^

Answer 2

First thing, I'm sorry that you are going through this. I can relate as I grew up in a similar situation.

Do you want to be there anymore ? I mean I know you wish your Mom and Dad would get it together and things wouldn't be so dysfunctional.

Since you can't change the way that they are acting, and it's really not a good environment for you I'd talk to someone about it. Maybe you could live with a relative or a good friends family.

You deserve to be loved and nurtured.

  

Answer 3

you have reason top be angry!!!!( i have anger issues to I'm 13 ) what i do is read a book or listen to music. sorry!