i have had a bad relationship with my parents for many years , when i became ill and could not cope i asked them for help and they told me they could not help me and walked off , they have always run me down and have always made me feel worthless, and have always told me how much they hated me , i have two children which they have tried to take off me and i have had to fight all the way to keep them , but my children adore them and just give me more grief , its a family reunion coming up and i just wont go , i refuse to be in the same place as them as i am currently in treatment and i am finally getting my life back and i feel fantastic , i have not felt this good about myself for over 10 years , my confidence is back and its wonderfull , my parents know how i feel about them as i have told them and they just say i am a trouble maker , what i feel does not come into it , my children now are yet again having a go at me as they feel i am letting them down , i know if i go to this reunion i will either end up feeling low again and lock myself away , or if one comment or abuse comes my way i would flip , i want to move on from them and stay clear from them as i know its what is good for me and my recovery , i have explined to the children how i feel and they are both teenagers so they do understand but never seem to give me a break , i have not once stopped them from seeing there gran dparents and not once i have slagged them off to the kids like they do me , they tend to buy a lot of gifts for the kids and get a great deal of pleasure in making me feel useless and that if it was not for them my kids would have nothing i ask them not to buy them gifts as i am trying to teach them the valure of money but they just buy more , i dont want to let my kids down but i just cant go and see them and be all nice as i am still hurting very bad , i am also scared of becoming ill again , what do you think i should do
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