Need advice!! please!?

Question

ok well about a month ago this guy i kinda like asked me out and i said wanted to get to no u better and well he asked me out a little bit later and i said i wasnt allowed to date bc i dont like him anymore and he is ubsessed with me. im in high school and everybody know i have strict parents so he believed me. but then the guy i really like for a about a year now i just found out he likes me but problem is my parents hate his whole family and if he asked me out i want to say yes but my parents and this guy r in the way i really dont want to hurt this guys feelings help!!! oo and i told the guy who askexd me out already that he should move bc there r so many other girls that like him and can date him but he is like i cant do that to u help!! please thank you :)

Answer 1

I think you should tell the guy that asked you out the truth.

Tell him you're not interested or that you have feelings for someone else. Cuz if you don't tell him the truth you'll hurt him more.

2nd guy you like?

We'll I think you should try it out and see what goes on.

The problem is between his and your family. Why do you have to do anything with it.

If he really likes you and you like him back, than I don't see why not?

Go 4 it.!!

Answer 2

Give him a Monica.

Answer 3

look up this question!

Answer 4

Bit-ch you got problems sorry can't help I'm just typing so I can get yahoo points lol.

Answer 5

If your parents do not like this guy's family there is a GOOD reason for it.If they are druggies and alcoholics or the criminal type or just immoral,then chances are this guy will grow up to follow in that family tradition.

You said you really liked this guy but never said why.

You need to push aside the romantic fantasies and view him through the cold hard facts.ANYONE can be nice and polite,look at the serial killer Ted Bundy who raped and killed at least 27 women we know of hon.THEY ALL thought he was good looking and charming etc.

Get to know if this guy smokes weed,drinks,is failing in school etc.

Trust your parent's judgment about him, because they see him without the lust and romantic fantasies and can see where a relationship with him will end.

Answer 6

What you're doing to the first guy is called leading him on.  Just tell him, it'd be better if he found out another way.