Need all guys!! College s*x/girlfriend help!!!?

Question

I found out that this guy that is going to be a freshman in college doesn't want a girlfriend because girls are a waste of time. What exactly does that mean to a guy and what does he want?

And this guy does good in school, and is athletic, but hes cute too.

Answer 1

I know I'm a girl, but i'm gonna give it a shot. Basically, he is just being a typical guy. most guys don't want to be tied down by a girl in the best of times, and going to college is one of the worst. College represents to many people a time of freedom and time to go a little - or a lot- crazy. most college guys are looking for random hookups and one night stands (most guys in general are). and unless a guy truly is head over heels for a girl, he wont compromise his freedom, especially when college is going to give him so much more. Remember: a girl will turn any guy into the love of her life, but a guy will turn the love of his life into just any girl.

Answer 2

It means that he's focused on school work and doesn't want to get distracted by a girl. I've seen it all too many times in my college career where guys will start failing out because they're pre-occupied with chicks. If you think he's cute and you want to go out with him, you should probably talk to him and assure him that his studies and athletic goals are his first priority and that you'll be there to support him in achieving them. If he's really focused on school, then maybe ask him to study with you, as long as you stay focused on schoolwork, he'll stay around you.