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i have flew down to see my friend for her birthday and attend a seminar is week.

I've known her for 8 months and we haven't seen each other for 6months and now i found out that she has to work all week but i was going to take her out on her birthday.

my treat all day to do want ever she wanted to do money is no object (but i haven't told her that yet) it was surprise.

i asked if she was free on Wednesday and she said she has to work and go to uni

so here's my question.

1st is there away she can get out of uni that day either get an extension or sick day and the

2nd ideas was i said money is no object so what i was thinking is if i asked her how much she would make in a day at work and then just gave it to her so she can take the day off for her birthday day.

how can i ask her or give it to her without it looking stuck up or like I'm buying her for the day i really want to spend some time with her she is the only reason i came down anyway the seminar was a cover so is this a good idea or is there another was around it.

all i want is one day with her we will be going out with god knows how many people next week for a club nite for her birthday plz help any

serious answer will be greatly appreciated

Answer 1

You can gave it to her buy asking someone who she works with, how much she makes,tell them not to tell her it's a surpise. Then later say for her birthday present you got her money. Ask if she can take the next day of work off, because it's her birthday and you want to take her some where special. Then if she says she can't ask if she can say she's sick, if that doesn't work ask if on her dayoff, or when she comes back from work if they can go somewhere together.

I hope i helped.

Answer 2

I'm not sure about the 1st one but

the 2nd. the money thing is definitely touchy, but maybe just explain how you were wanting to surprise her and say something like "ill take care of everything" if she says i cant afford to lose money, then i think it would be ok to offer the "days work money".

hopefully this helped at least a little.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Well, money may be no object but trust me, the best things in life are free, and yes, money cant buy everything. if u give her money to spend a day with u, nothing can be more humiliating. U can just tell her that u came this far just to spend some time with her, and u want her to take a leave. Now, its upto her to decide what she wants, u have no right to force her, and yes, people not only work for money, they also work for pleasure and responsibilities. U seem to be a money minded person- look at the other side of life. And yes, its her birthday, so its she who decides how she wants to spend it, u can just politely ask her to go out with u, and if she declines, u have no right to force her.  

Answer 4

..... offering her money may offend her, just call her out.