Need help! I dont know what to do...

Question

I was sick Monday, Tuesday right up to Thursday, I was getting ready to school on Friday but I didn't go to school for some bold reason and instead went to the beach and library. Right after that I came home and my Mum was sitting on the couch waiting for me, from there I already knew that she found out from the way she was talking to me. She asked me "How was school" and I replied by saying "yeah, it was ok" but after a while she said "I called school today, and they said you weren't there!" ....I was shocked....and obviously she was very pissed, so she sent me back to school to get all the work I missed on the days I was away.

Now she very unhappy and I don’t know what to do! I know, I know I should have gone to school in the first place but ...it was tempting...

But now I can see that she’s lost trust in me......Need some help...

Answer 1

better explain to her your reason.. besides, she's your mother.. she will understand no matter what. i've experienced that before and now, we're close again,. ^_^

Answer 2

tell her how sorry you are. and dont do anything to break her trust again. maybe she will understand.

Answer 3

Almost everybody does that at least once in their lifetime.It's not the end of the world.The bad part is losing face with your mother.Sit her down tell her how bad you feel and how sorry you are. she will feel better and get over it in time.

Answer 4

Firstly, ask you self if you are genuinely sorry about not going back to school. Secondly, are you sincerely sorry about lying to your mum.

If you are truly sorry about the above 2 issues, i think you should write a letter to first you mum and apologise to her for lying and another letter to the school for playing truant. In both your letters mention that this would not happen again and that you understand that they are actually thinking for your best interest.

Answer 5

Go to her room and say sorry and try to explain. Even when you didn't went to school, you went to the library to study right? there's a reason

Answer 6

well whats done is done. Just try a little bit to gain her trust back. Maybe chores or apologizing and doing all your homework thats all i can think of...

Answer 7

jus be like mom im really sorryy.it wont happen again..i have no clue what i was thinking.and say to her ever kid makes mistakes in their lives at some point. and suck up to her.she probs get over it. my mom always gets over the stuff i do. and trust me its way worse than wut u did.it will be fine..shes your mom.shes probs still gunna trust you.if she doesnt than try to gain her trust back.

Answer 8

Apologize for lying and be sincere about it.  Regain her trust by respecting her by not lying.

Answer 9

you should of went to school,  

Answer 10

well you brought her distrust upon yourself so..

but just do all your work and c**p and she'll forgive you i'm sure

it's not really that much of a big deal you know?

Answer 11

never skip school again, continue this and also being very nice and over time she may regain your trust. just stop lieing, your only hurting yourself.

Answer 12

You have clearly learned from your mistake. The next step is to let her know that. Get all of your work done, well, and show her. Let her know you do care, both about school, and about her. Best of luck.

Answer 13

...Dude, you answered your own question "I should have gone to school in the first place" end of story.

Answer 14

cry and promise to never do it again=D

it works for me=)

well trust is a very strong fragile thing years to bulid but can take just a second to lose.... just talk to your mom and after awhile that trust can and will be built again

Answer 15

tell her you are truly sorry make eye contact when you do it. practice it in the mirror. don't say you'll never do it again cause then she will lose more trust in you if you get caught again.

you can also try writing an I'm sorry card. flowers are also good.

if none of that works, just give her some time to get over it

Answer 16

wow i wish i had ur guts. anyway, there isnt anything u can do, just slowly slowly regain ur mums trust, just by doing the little things, like cook dinner, wash the dishes, do things without her asking or without u complaining. go to school and come home and do ur homework and dont do anything to risky for a few weeks. but dont feel too bad, i mean ask ur mum i bet she has done stuff like this before.  

Answer 17

You just have to show her that you are trustworthy. only time will allow her to regain that lost trust.

Answer 18

My mom caught me at a party recentlty and i lost all trust with her too.

i seem to just suck up to her and act respectful.

show her that you are trustworthy and then after a while the trust will eventualy come back.

Answer 19

Try to make up for the lost time.  Try to study harder and make a double time to catch up. From now on be honest in everything you say or do. That way you will again earn the trust of your mom and i'm sure your relationship will be back to normal where trust and respect reign.