Need help? Parents caught us?

Question

So my sister and I have been close for all our lives, she's 14 and I'm 16, and I asked a question on here before and someone said it was ok so we made out, and one time we weren't careful and our parents caught us they opened the door then when sis yelled in shock they quickly left, that was this morning and they haven't said anything about it, what should I do?

No, we're not going to stop, thanks for trying.

Answer 1

it's alright i guess at least you kissed a girl!

Answer 2

I say you move out of the south and find a girl that doesn't share your genes.

Answer 3

You don't say whether your male / female or give any ages, which might just add to the BIG picture here.

And >  No, we're not going to stop, <  Soooo, why the ''Need help? Parents caught us'' ?  Why actually bother actually asking the question about 'what should you do' in the first polace!

A:  Given you age, which we don't know, there is always the chance that you could be placed before a Court of Law, placed in some form of 'Social' care (seperated) untiul you become of legal age, whereupon, you are pretty well free to do as you please.

B:  A likely simple answer to your question would be 'to move house'.

Personally speaking, although I don't know you, I feel like I want to let you know that I really do not like you.  I get the sense that you are a self centred individual and are 'Dangerous'.

Sash.

Answer 4

Oh man! This is very tough.Is it your Step sister or blood sister. I truly believe that two people related can love each other a lot, but there are boundaries with it. (unfortunately for you and your sister)

We are in the US and it is totally illegal for two siblings blood related to marry or be in a relationship. They send people to jail or have court orders to separate them. I say this a lot, but you two need to go to God and pray about this one. He is the only one that can help a situation like this.

Answer 5

ok... i think you need to sit down and talk to parents about what they saw. their your parents they should understand! if you dont stop please be more careful!!  

Answer 6

Presumably  incest is illegal in whatever country you live in. Apart from actually getting caught by your parents (they are probably too shocked to actually believe what they saw); if you do get caught you could well end up in Court and then subject to where you live you could end up in prison and your sister in care.

Apart from the above if you do get her pregnant then the child could have severe birth/mental defects from your actions.

Although you love each other it is unhealthy and unwise to continue the reationship.

Answer 7

Just don't say anything, like they'll get over it in time. With my parents if they saw something like that they'd kick me out of the house and tell EVERYONE. But I would keep quiet.

Answer 8

UR WORSE THEN ME, oh well its kinda ******,,,, but we are not prefect...

Answer 9

You didn't tell us if you are a male or female.

Either way, it is natural for teen siblings to sometimes explore each other sexually.  However, if you are a male, I'd make sure that there is NO PENETRATION, because there is always the risk of pregnancy, and God knows that would be a really bad thing.

But if its just kissing, and its just experimentation, and your not "in love" with each other or anything, I don't see a major problem with it.

Answer 10

There's not much YOU can do. But...I'm guessing your parents are trying to figure out what to do.

Answer 11

i cant tell if you are a guy or a girl so i am guessing that you are a girl just keep making out with him if you are a guy keep making out with her

Answer 12

Wow, I hope that doesn't happen to me.  Just don't say anything...ever.  And be careful, for all things good and holy.

Answer 13

Sorry that they don't understand.. (though maybe they do and that's why you haven't heard from them yet).

In the future, be more private. Don't do anything in the house unless you are sure your parents are away. Don't do anything when they are sleeping either, it's too easy to get caught. Find somewhere else to go.

Your parents will get over this. If they don't, oh well. It's not going to change the feelings you have, so try to dwell on it as little as possible.

Finally, kudos for being honest and moving forward in this. Don't let people's judgments deter you from doing what you feel.  

Answer 14

I think you need to

1.) Talk to your parents about what's going on and how you're feeling. See what they say, and if they do not agree with this "relationship" you have to respect them. It's their home. If you don't like it and want to be with your sister, get your own place. You're both CHILDREN.

2.) You should probably talk to some kind of professional about this, because as much as "in love" you feel, it is not normal and there are probably other reasons as to why you're so attracted to each other.

3.) Whatever you do, don't have s*x with each other. You never know what can happen,and in a few years..even a few weeks, you might not feel this way anymore (no matter how much you think you'll always feel this way). With s*x there's always a chance of pregnancy ..and children, unlike feelings, do Not go away.

As I said, you're both children. You need to talk to someone about this, it's not healthy.