Need help and advice on first time havin s*x.

Question

yeah....my gf and i are planning to have s*x soon, and we are both virgins, and we both truly love each other. im kinda scared because i heard that it hurts for girls/women when they first do it...what should i do? i dont wanna hurt her or anything...plz i need some advice on how to have a both satisfying and special first time with her, with the least of pain. =/

Answer 1

you've got to get her warmed up with lots of foreplay. u boys can't just stick something inside us before we're ready. get her steaming first, then use your fingers to probe and get her p*ssy warmed up, and then just go slow. communication is essential. lol

Answer 2

dont do it!  wait until your married and if that seems to far away then your not commited.

Answer 3

Look I don't know what all you've experimented with, but make sure everything is wet. I also don't know how old you are, but use protection unless you are ready for that road. I didn't use protection once and I have a baby on the way now.

Just be careful, take everything slow and gentle at first, keep her comforted and don't automatically quit at all signs of pain just let her kind of lead. Greatest thing I've learned, if she says stop then stop.

Also there is the option of waiting until your married. People say it's much more satisfying, but honestly I wouldn't take giving up my virginity early for anything.

Answer 4

It's ILLEGAL unless you're married. :X

How old are you? If you're close to 18 then you don't have that long to wait... :D

Once you're married, make sure to uphold your relationship as Husband and Wife as well as Mother and Father, or you'll get divorced. My parents haven't divorced, and never will, because they love eachother. They still go on dates as Husband and Wife, not just Mother and Father.

Answer 5

Don't listen to that ***** saying wait till your married,just take it slow map her movements and facial expressions if it looks like she is hurting slow down.Just take it slow and be gentle.Do ever wait till your married everyone who does always says they regretted it man.Love is a powerful thing so surround yourself with it and the woman you love.

Answer 6

The first time for u both, I think its pretty tough. A girl always hates her first time. keep it real slow and take the usual precautions. Have a nice time!

Answer 7

Hi Soul,

  You seem to be a nice guy and you are concern about your girlfriend and pain with intercourse. Yes it will hurt her some,but if you have foreplay before intercourse this will help get her ready for s*x.When you are both ready to have s*x go very slow and easy and don't go like a race horse out of the gate. Make it special for both of you,it will probably take 5 or 6 difference times of having intercourse with her before it doesn't hurt her anymore.After this she will enjoy having intercourse with you. Just remember you both have to relax and don't be in a hurry enjoy each other and the closest is something else you will never forget. Please use some protection.

Your Friend,

poppy1