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I m worried if smth is wrong with me. I was with the girl the other night and it was erect in the beginning and we kissed and etc, i was not very excited i mean sexually even though wanted s*x and when it was time to go in it was already down (i mean not fully erect maybe 70%), cuz i lost excitement and she said "it didn't want anything", but if she would do something to it, it would become erect again. Is this normal? or its some kind of disease?

after that i made experiment at home: if i stimulate it it becomes erect in 10 seconds and if i stop stimulation it goes down in like 30 seconds is it normal? please advice. I lost confidence. I didn't have s*x for a long time and was only masturbating and now i faced with such thing! before this break in sexual activity i don't remember how it was, however during masturbation everything is fine and i can do it anytime i want and maintain erection long with stimulation stops and etc.

Answer 1

if you stop the stimulation its going to go down. You have to keep stimulating it in order to stay hard . your fine  you dont have any kind of disease.

Answer 2

Don't loose your confidence.  Sometime the p***s has a mind of its own and often times needs a little help to work.

You might ask yourself was the person you were with really turning you on or were you just going through the motions of being a little excited.  Sometimes we can get excited and not really be into who we are with.

If you are not involved, give yourself a chance with other people and see what happens.

Answer 3

if u stop simulation it will go down

Answer 4

Dude

it's normal

was it your first time?

coz u sound like it was

anyway i can only think of 2 reasons why it won't stay up long

1. you're used to s*x

2. you're romantic instead of horny during s*x

i suggest go with number 2

chicks dig that

oh, and if it doesn't stay up long during s*x

either kiss her or push it in to feel her

always works