My husband and I have been married a little over a year. Ever since our daughter was born, we seem to be just not nice to each other anymore. He irritates me and i irritate him. We try to be nice, but it's like we forget sometimes. like i will answer him sassy. and he will too. I know we're both tired but we shouldnt treat each other badly. We argue and then we try to talk things through, but most times, if i tell him how I feel about something, he gets annoyed because "i;m making him feel bad." then when he wants to say something, he tells me how something i did or said makes him feel, i will say "thats not waht i meant" he tells me but thats how you made me feel. its like he can tell me but if i tell him i'm making him feel bad.
any constructive advice on how to get along better and just be nicer? thank you
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