Need help apologizing to him?

Question

So i've just started dating this really great guy, and last night was the first team we were getting physical, and we were both in bed, and we were kissing, and I was trying to reposition myself on top of him and my knee slipped and landed right ontop of his BALLS! I felt soo bad, he looked like he was in so much pain rolling around on the bed holding himself, we didnt do anything for the rest of the night, and I just went home.

Has anyone ever had this happen? did your guy react the same? I feel like such a clutch to have let something like this happen.

Answer 1

Just say sorry to him and try to forget abut that

Answer 2

I haven't had that happen, but I would say the best approach is the simplest. Simply tell him sorry. I'm sure he won't be too bent out of shape about it =]

Answer 3

I've accidentally sacked every guy I've ever dated except my current fiance!  (Maybe that means we just "fit" better together??) Anyway, it was always an awkward accident just like your experience.  Just apologize and make a joke about being uncoordinated, he must know it was an accident, and although it hurt A LOT, he should get over it by the next day or he's over reacting/being a baby about it.

Don't feel too bad about it, accidents happen.

Answer 4

Ouch! But this is the Wedding section. If this happened to us here, it would be devastating!

Answer 5

I have accidentally hit my fiance in the junk so many times (just the other day as a matter of fact) that it's not a big deal anymore.  But the first time it happened, we were in close to the same situation.  At the time, I apologized to him right away.  From then on, I made a light joke of it.  Like, the next time he picked me up for a date, I asked him if he was wearing his cup.  Talking about it now, he said it was a great way to handle it because it was embarrassing for BOTH of us and my reaction helped lighten the mood about it

Answer 6

Wow, that sucks. I wouldnt worry too much about it though.

Answer 7

dont sweat it! it's not that serious on your part, him on the other hand should be ok by now. Im sure he's waiting on a second try and this time make it right. just joke ,laugh it off, and keep it moving he will forget about it