Need help breaking up!!?

Question

I am in love with my girlfriend <3

But its not working out anymore

Different schools now& a long-distance relationship

We both feel the need to break up

She doesn't even want to talk about it with me

But I HAVE 2 Solve it though. I can't ignore it.

How can I suggest we Break up with each other?

"We're not falling in love we're falling Apart!"

"We're the perfect couple, just not in the perfect situation!"

Can I do that? I am so confused.

We have to break-up, we can't work it out anymore.

The longer I'm with her the more she's hurting me.

Cause its impossible to date, even if I'm in love with her

What can I do?

I just can't go on from here.

Answer 1

well if you really like her than i think you should just try and work it out but  if you want it to end then just tell her that its not going to work because she is not there for you anymore and yes long distance relationships never work so just end it now before you ruin a friend ship because eventually you will end up hating each other trust me i have been in the same boat i know all about it! and you are wondering how to bring it up with her just ask her if she thinks it going to work and see what she says! but i would defiantly break up with her it as soon as possible

Answer 2

Well, if you both feel the need to end the relationship, its pretty easy. It&#039;ll be hard, but if it needs to be done then stop being depressed over and get it over with.

Tell her that since you both feel the need to end things then it would be best if it was just don&#039;t now. Saves the long days of heartache.

Answer 3

if you are this attached to this girl. dont do it.

you seem to love her sooo much. y break up if its going to hurt you?

but if it isnt working out, maybe you guys just need a break and thats all

Answer 4

Just don&#039;t say you &quot;Just want to be friends&quot;  that&#039;ll just p**s her off.

and don&#039;t use ANY of the lines you always hear &quot;its not you its me&quot;

no.  that&#039;s lame.  be original and just tell her how you feel about everything.  You really love her but the long distance relationship makes things difficult, maybe you could try to be together again at a better time, or something.  say what you feel, not what you think youre supposed to say.

Answer 5

tell her its just not the right time in your life and you are crazy busy with school. tell her you love her and start to get over it

Answer 6

just say your confuse say what should we do should we work this out or not

Hope I Help

Answer 7

Tell her I&#039;m sorry. It&#039;s not her and it is not a bad relationship but more bad timing. Tell her while you still love her, you are struggling with the long distance and think you&#039;d both be better off if you went your separate ways.

Be gentle and loving. Tell her thank you so much for all the joy she has brought into your life. And all the things you have learnt from her and how you will take that with you. And look back on the relationship with fondness and how it was a good experience.

Finally, wish her well.

Answer 8

Tell her, &quot;I really care for you, but I think we both know our situation will not give us the proper chance to nurture our relationship. We should be fair to each other and go our separate ways. I think we could have been very good together, but this is not the time.&quot; Then run like a wild beast!

Answer 9

What level of schooling is it?  If it&#039;s college, you can transfer to her school if you think that would help.  Otherwise, it probably would be best to break up.  Either way, you need to talk to her.  Don&#039;t take no for an answer on that subject.

Answer 10

if you love her you have to let her go?

tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?

idk.

but i think you should break up with her if shes hurting you. :/

Answer 11

Just tell her the truth.

I know its hard but its for the best.

Answer 12

IF YOUR GUT INSTINCT IS TO END THE RELATIONSHIP, THEN FOLLOW THAT, IF YOU PROCEED IN LINGERING ON TO A DEAD END RELATIONSHIP YOU WILL ONLY WORSEN WHATS LEFT OF YALL FRIENDSHIP, IF THE BREAKUP IS MUTUAL.....GO YOUR SEPARATE WAYS

Answer 13

either way your going her! But you gotta do what you feel is best for you! She will find someone who is better than you! someone who will love her no matter what the distance is!

Answer 14

50 Ways To Leave Your Lover

The problem is all inside your head

She said to me

The answer is easy if you

Take it logically

I’d like to help you in your struggle

To be free

There must be fifty ways

To leave your lover

She said it’s really not my habit

To intrude

Furthermore, I hope my meaning

Won’t be lost or misconstrued

But I’ll repeat myself

At the risk of being crude

There must be fifty ways

To leave your lover

Fifty ways to leave your lover

CHORUS:

You just slip out the back, Jack

Make a new plan, Stan

You don’t need to be coy, Roy

Just get yourself free

Hop on the bus, Gus

You don’t need to discuss much

Just drop off the key, Lee

And get yourself free

She said it grieves me so

To see you in such pain

I wish there was something I could do

To make you smile again

I said I appreciate that

And would you please explain

About the fifty ways

She said why don’t we both

Just sleep on it tonight

And I believe in the morning

You’ll begin to see the light

And then she kissed me

And I realized she probably was right

There must be fifty ways

To leave your lover

Fifty ways to leave your lover

Answer 15

Okay. If you&#039;re referencing what I think you are with &quot;We&#039;re not falling in love we&#039;re falling Apart,&quot; then:

DO NOT USE SONG LYRICS. [The medic droid has that line in one of their songs] xD

Just tell her what you just said here, minus the lyrics.

The truth will be your best bet, buddy.

Answer 16

Get out.

LEAVE!

Right now.

It&#039;s the end of you and me.