Need help don't know what to do.?

Question

Ok I got 14 years old, i dont have girlfriend and i dont like to talk about GF with my family i dont like it.My Father is kinda worried because i dont have GF and he told to my mom, my mom tell that at the dinner room and now im under presure i mean i do have friends that are girls and stuff, the only things that they say is that im kind,funny,good person and smart but why! is so hard to found girlfriend??? i mean im not the most pretty boy in school and either the most ugly guy, just average why is so hard found a girlfriend ><

Answer 1

At such a young age, your parents should be more concerned about focussing on your studies which would determine your future. Getting a gf now is your lowest priority and it isnt wise to follow others. Be original and follow your inner voice. Your father is rather unusual. Just tell your father you are not interested and you have more positive and important things to do. Just remember that: &#039;The herd is not always right, and to follow like sheep is not the best approach to Life.Already many things about youngsters in society are already NOT right&#039;.

  If this thing troubles you a great deal, it would be wise to get advice from a few other understanding adults, including your teachers. Positive action now is better than regrets later on.   I wish you a bright future!  :-))  

Answer 2

Your parents should be glad you don&#039;t have a GF at 14. You are too young for that kind of pressure. Tell them that you will have a GF when you are ready. Your father is a jerk.