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i am a teenager 13 almost 14 and need help asking my dad a question.

HERE IS THE QUESTION

i want to were a chanstity belt. can i get one.

REASONS

make me feel safe about rape.

make girls comefortable around me.

make me feel safe around every one especialy girls.

make my parents know i won't have s*x on a date.

How do i ask him.

ps thanks everyone who answers

hint hint i am male

i am afriad the key will be kept with my mother and father. i did research

53 minutes ago

hin hint i am male

i am afriad of rapists.

the key will be kept with my mother and father. i did the research.

Answer 1

I do not think you NEED to get a chastity belt! If the reasons you list are real, you need therapy!

1. While instances of rape do occur against males, the frequency of it is so low that the odds of it happening to you are slim to none!

2. Girls won't feel safe around you! In fact if they know you are wearing a chastity belt, they are going to be creeped out!

3. Make you feel safe? If you are so afraid that everyone you come across is going to want to rape you, you are either paranoid or so arrogant it borders on a mental disorder.

4. Chastity belt or not, if you want to have s*x bad enough, you'll find a way to defeat it! Don't your parents trust you enough to make the correct choices with out the use of such devices?

I am almost certain that you want this to satisfy some sort of fetish you may have.

But I digress, if you want one bad enough, for what ever the reasons, I am sure you will find a way to get one! If you want the help of your parents, the direct approach usually works the best! Simply ask for what you want and list the reasons for it, but don't be to surprised if they start laughing at you!

Answer 2

Well, I would think the best way would be to just ask him straight up.  Tell him your concerns and reasoning and see what happens. Its a unique question, so he may need some time to process it, but parents are pretty good about hearing their kids out.

Answer 3

If you really want this, ask your father. If it is because your scared of rapists, don't. I'm sure you won't get raped, and if you really are going to raped, they'll try hard enough to get a leather belt off.

If you really want it, I'm sure your dad will be ecstatic. Just talk to your father about it. Get him alone and talk to him about it, tell him it is because you want them to trust you, not because your afraid you will.

Good luck.