Need help what should i do in this case or situation?

Question

I meet my fiancee at work on Halloween and we work in the same department. So far our job is okay with it since the service director and the assistant store director both had meet their spouses the same way, and yes it against the rules in the company but they look passed it. Now the assistant store director is leaving and a new one is coming in should we tell the new one and do you think i should go ahead and ask for a transfer to another store? don't want to leave the store they only other dept hiring is a dept i don't want to go to it is more of a dangerous area. Am i wrong to fear that either of us can be fired even though the top people do know and we are getting married Nov 1st what should we do? and how can we go about it? please help very worried.

Answer 1

Since you are getting married, I wouldn't worry about it.  I doubt either of you will get fired.  If I was in your shoes, I would not go out of my way to let the new hire know.  If it comes up, just don't lie about it.  Also, if you don't want a transfer, do not put in for one.  If the new manger does not like the situation and decides to transfer you, relay your fears about the location of the other department and ask if there is any way to work it out.  The worst that can happen- you get transferred anyway.