Need help with a rape situation?

Question

my friend was recently raped

she hasnt admitted it to being rape

but she said she met the guy at a book store then wanted to hang out

so they went to her house and they started kissing but she didnt want to so started pushing away and saying no

he didnt stop

then he got a condom out and did his thing

the whole time saying no

she made him leave soon after

shes having a hard time eating or sleeping

but anywho...

shes 17 and hes 24

so its a huge difference for someone that age...

so anywho... she lives with her mom...

and shes very protective so she thinks her mom will get really mad if she knew she had a guy over

but she doesnt realize that she need to tell her mom and go to the cops

or else this guy will do it to more girls if he hasnt already

how do i get her to tell her mom and the cops??

Answer 1

wow, it's tough! Sounds like your friend is in denial right now, which is ok. Let her be for now-some people have a hard time accepting that they were raped; she'll soon recognize what happened and then will need your help and support. Then you can give her the # of a rape crisis hotline, or help her file a police report then.

If you're really concerned, maybe you can get her to a dr. or a clinic- without her mom.

good luck!!

Answer 2

She needs to tell the police. That is statutory rape and is a felony. He will go away for a long time. Get to the police ASAP

Answer 3

If you're going to invite strangers home with you, you're inviting trouble. Maybe she'll think twice about hooking up with people in book stores in future. She'll never be able to prove it was rape anyway.

Answer 4

Tell them for her. trust me she gunna be mad but she'll end up forgiving you