Need help with girls?

Question

im 14 and i so badly want a girlfriend, i know where to find girls my age. town and places like that but i dont know what to say. im not scared or shy ill go up and say anything but i just dunno what to say. kinda like if your sitting in McDonalds and you see a girl sitting across the room and you like her, what would you do and say. i'd kinda like to leave the conversation with a number or date. but i have no idea how this is done.

guys how do you do this?

and girls how do you like guys to do this?

thanks

Answer 1

well you should start with "hey." that will get a girls attention but be really nonchalant about it. just talk to her for a little while and act like a possible friend and when you or she has to go say "call me and maybe we can hang out sometime" then give her your number. and if you don't get the chance to talk or it seems like shes trying to ditch you when she leaves chances are its not worth it. anyway thats what i think and trust me on this... i know a lot about this stuff...(and yet i'm a year younger than you... hehehe...)

Answer 2

With your age, normally the better chances are asking a girl out in school. You find a girl thats interested get to know her by asking her whats her name, what are your classes, maybe a few days later, ask her to help you with an hwrk, or skip that and write a lil note and ask her you wanna catch a movie with me this weekend.? First of all you gotta have confidence to all do all this, Dont hold yourself too tight..Be mellow and fun girls are normally into that. And hair too so make sure your hair isn'[t all bushy ! have it nice clean cut . Girls your age normally digs boys with cool hair. Dont know why but they do, Cuz I do, when I was aorund your age. Well hope this helps son.  Good Luck!

Answer 3

im a 14 year old girl :)! and  to be honest im not really forward. but if a guy came up to me and started to talk to me ans stuff, id talk back, little conversations like ' you alright' i know it sounds really stupid but i would be interested if the took things slow and everything, and if they seemed ok and asked for my msn or number or anything, id would probably give it to them! but just talk to them how u would talk to a mate really, be nice :)

Answer 4

umm,go to her and tell her ''u look pretty,,..can u give me ur # so i can text u''

if she said''no''

i think she is not interested

go 2 another girl

Answer 5

Hey, I'm a 15yr old girl and I'm from Kimberley BC.  (ill date you haha)     just messin..   The best thing to do is to just be straight foreward about it, go up to the girl you like and be like ''hey i think youre very beautiful and i would really like to get to know you better, could i take you out for dinner sometime?''  something like that... its annoying when guys give mixed signals.

Answer 6

Go up to a girl you like and ask for her number.

then come back and say hi, i'm 'insert your name'  whats your name?

and say do you hang around here often? then ask her what school she goes to,where else she hangs out,her birthday,her friends names,share funny moments which relate to something you're talking about. Then it'll be easy after that :) Good luck x

Answer 7

just say 'you are pretty want to go out"

if you try it on 100 girls you get at least 10 or 20 dates but probably more like 40

Answer 8

Well I think it's great you don't mind going p and saying hi, i wish every other guy thought like that, but most don't =(

I think just going up and saying "Hi my names ___ how are you?" just have a normal converstion, but make sure the girl seems interested in you, before you just start a conversation. (if she keeps on looking at you, smiles etc)

good luck =D

Answer 9

Curious and hy boy approaches out of league beauty,

"YOU, ME, WE HAVE s*x"

"Like, what?"

"THE RACE MUST CONTINUE, THE RACE MUST CONTINUE!!!"

"Umm, like, wtf"

and thats how it done!

Answer 10

just walk up to her and say " your really hot" want me to buy u fries?

Answer 11

Dude, it's totally natural.

I'm not that experienced (because I'm a girl and all) but I know what I like in a guy.

First of all, you mentioned you're not afraid to say anything, that's good - kind of. If you came up to me and was all like, happy-go-lucky and out-there, I'd think you'd be some sort of freak, or manic or you're just doing a stupid dare.

Just be yourself, though, there's nothing a girl hates more than a guy who acts like someone he isn't in front of a girl just to impress her.

Feel relaxed and be comfortable, don't try too hard. Be kind of on the down-low, or low-down... whatever.

Yeah, so that's all I've got for you so far, I'm sure I can come up with more, I'll re-postt when I do.

So, good luck... or whatever I'm supposed to say.

LOL

XD

Answer 12

well i wouldn't want a guy staring at me when im  eating... so don't stare at her... bekuz it makes us feel weird and creeped out! You should go up to her and go " Hi I'm ____, what's your name?" I don't like it when boys tell me I'm hott as the first line. I wan't them to kinda talk first and somehow throw in that they think i am cute. You should probably ask their number so you can talk more...don't jump straight to a date!

Answer 13

All right heres some advice:

Your probably never gona see the girl again if you fail so dont be scared.

Be yourself and stay confident in the approach.

Just talk to her and ask if shes single then ask for a number.

Dont forget, dont worry that you will fail because you may never see them again but be nice!

Sorry if i sounded bossy mate but i hope i helped

Answer 14

First you need basic information,like if she has an affair with other guy,what is her likings and dis-likings,you have to grew a good relation with her parents,like you can help her parents in some works at free of cost,in this way you will be in touch with her.Dress like she likes,but don't act smart and be confident not overconfident,don't be scared,after some time when you and she will become friends one day propose her,it works.

Good Luck !

Answer 15

a guy has never done that to me lol but if it did happen and i wasn't dating anyone i would like the guy to come up to me himself not through a friend but his friend to be with him to just say something and start talking for a bit and then maybe give each other our mobile numbers. lol