Need help with life matters?

Question

Im turning 21 years old this end of august .

I dont have a job

I did my exams but failed most of them :(

I dont have a license, or a car.

I live almost anywhere cause my parents threw me out the house when i was 12

I dont have any money.

And i dont have any many friends cause people look at me as though i am weird

I find myself very smart (thats just what people tells me)

I have a lot of confidence, and such.

I am not that fit cause i have asthma and always will run into a cold

And i don't have much hobbies

and i dont want to work at a fast food place.....

I need REAL advice.

I want to be the guy who has money in his pocket, and to be able to get off work and to have friends to go hangout with or possible date's, and things like that...

i don;t even know who my real parents is or my origin

I don't have any idea how to get my life back on track, please help,

to make matters worse i am from malaysia so its really hard for me :(

Any advice please :( !

Answer 1

go and find a job, study...you should try!!!

Answer 2

First of all, you have to get a license, and pass the driving test.

Next, you have to get a job (pick one based on your interests), so that you can earn money for all oy your other needs. Remember, if you pick a job you enjoy, you'll never have to work a day in your life! :)

Save money up so that you can buy a car or an apartment (might take a while, but it's worth it).

It sounds like you've got the brains, so put them to work! Study like crazy, so that you can pass your exams. Passing the exams means a better job and earning more money.

In your spare time, you may want to work on building hobbies, like sports, and also building friendships. Friendship is soooooo important because it can last you a lifetime, and whenever you run into problems like this, you can turn to your friends! I'm not sure what you can do about your asthma, though. Just work around it, and don't make yourself sick.

For now, I would work majorly on getting a small job and passing your exams. Get all the help you can from teachers. I know you are in a bit of a rut right now, but take my word for it, life will get better. It might take some time, but you will be very happy and content in the future. I'm very sorry about what you're going through, and I wish you the best of luck. By the way, have a very happy birthday! :D

Answer 3

well first off how are you able to get online?

and if you are maybe you should try earning an online degree.

Answer 4

Find something (a craft or service) you do know how to do and start yourself a business. Make business cards for a service, or make and sell a craft. If you can't sell it well there, sell it online. You don't always need money to start a business. One service will bring in one payment. One craft will give you money to continue.  

Don't focus on what you can't or haven't been able to do. Focus on what you can do and expand from there. Don't give up, regardless.