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Need help with this girl.. what is her deal?

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Alright I met this girl through work. Before we started talking I noticed her eye contact with me, not the usual. Felt like she was interested, so I began to get curious. Sometimes if I am working behind her I will notice her look back at me multiple times. Shy around me at first, but since we started talking she is so d**n giggly around me. Likes to play hit me and give me these little smiles. She has brushed her chest up against me a few times, stands there for a second real close.. Always texting me to see if I am working when she is and is happy when I say I am. Anyway, she recently quit the job, it is the only way we see each other. She texted it to me and I told her I will miss her. She replied "I'll miss youu but you have my number we'll have to hang out one day ha" I said that'd be cool. Well after a week goes by, yesterday I asked her to hang out on the following day,(today) she said she would. So today I texted to see if she still wanted to hang out and she didn't reply at first. I waited two hours and asked again. Said she was sorry and was asleep but had to ask her mom bc she is "supposed" to be grounded. Well she never got back to me... What does this mean? She's also talked about other guys before supposedly hooking up with one. I don't know why she would tell me that.. and also said she had a date with one but then later told me she never went out with him. But says another guy wants to take her on a date. I'm 21 and she is 17. Does she just want me to chase her and make me jealous? Or has she lost interest because she never got back to me?

She also stopped replying to my text once in covo, and I asked if she got it.. she said yeah sorry I am at my friend nicks house ha.. I don't know any of her friends so why would she need to say the name? Is she trying to tell me something?

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  1. I honestly am not too sure...  This goes different ways...

    But if I had to guess, she may have been grounded, you never know, but I think she might be nervous to see you again and might not know how to handle seeing you again.  

    She may have lost interest, but if she keeps mentioning people asking her out, but she never actually went out with them, then I think she might be trying to make you jealous, because after she supposedly went out with one, she said she didn't.

    You should try asking her what's wrong and seeing what the problem really is.  If she keeps saying the same things, you can give it some time and try again.  Not sure if that would help much :(, but I would try that...  Hope I helped a little...


  2. I tounds to me like either:

    1) she is a flirt and a tease

    2) she isn't interested in you now that you don't work together

    3) was attracted to you but decided that she wasn't interested after getting to know you better

    4) her mom found out about you and is freaked out that you are 21, made her quit the job, and is forbidding her to see you.  She doesn't want to tell you this because she wants to save face.

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