Need honest opinion..?

Question

Hey, I posted this quesion before, but I forgot to make my photos public, so here it is again...

Hi, I'm an 18 yr old girl who's never had a boyfriend. I've had a couple of guys ask me out, but i've never liked them, and i've liked a couple of guys who've never liked me. I know this sounds really, really shallow, but I'm always attracted to the good-looking guys.. who are never attracted back. I feel really horrible and superficial but I can't seem to do anything about it. I'm no stunner myself, i'd say i'm average, so if everyone feels the same way as me, does it mean i'll never get a boyfriend?! Here's a couple of my photos so you can judge for yourself;

I'm 2nd from the right in the teal coloured dress:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=111353157&albumID=897923&imageID=6268293

and this one:

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=111353157&albumID=897923&imageID=6265405

I put that one there so you could see me when i'm not quite so well groomed. Both photos are 1-2 years old, but I haven't changed much.

Anyway, what would be a good way to attract guys? I'm chatty, friendly, nice and I try to dress reasonably nicely. I think if I could do something to catch their attention, maybe they'd be won over when they got to know me? Maybe even some tips on looking good? I'd love to have my hair down all the time, but its' extremely frizzy so I only have it down when I wack a heap of gel in it after showering or I go the hairdresses (see first pic)

Please don't make any nasty comments, I would just like some honest advice.

Thanks in advance =)

Answer 1

ROFL

ummm not much i can say

LOLZ

Answer 2

oh my gosh...well you wanted an honest answer so here it goes:

You're really shallow. Your outside is a good representation of your inside and honestly, you won't get a guy until your heart becomes more pure and deep. V_v Why should a guy love you for your personality instead of your face when you're not willing to do the same? God won't give you that special someone until you become more mature. This is my honest opinion. Grow up and stop being so consumed by looks. URGH.

Answer 3

When you love yourself and show that confidence. THATS what guys are attracted to.. if you focus on how you look and you dont have that confidence of loving yourself.. nothing will happen.

i dont know why your in such a rush to get a boyfriend. you're only 18. you have the rest of your life to meet someone and fall in love. i know its hard when you see it around you. and all your friends seem happy. but the truth is that relationships are hard work. they take a lot of work from both sides. some end in heart break, some dont.

you shouldnt be in a rush, and complain you dont have a boyfriend. you should enjoy living your life and being 18. i know how you feel from experience. i didnt get my first boyfriend untill i was 23. i thought i wasnt normal, i thought their was something wrong with me, but i worked on myself. and i built my confidence, and natural beauty just came well.. naturally. and thats what boys are attracted to.

look in the mirror and re-evaluate yourself. and ask yourself "do i really want a boyfriend right now?" or is it something you think you "need" ?

im just sayin. because honestly, its better if you wait till your older. dating helps. but as far as having a solid boyfriend.. it'll happen when it happens. that stuff you cant rush.

and you dont need to post your pix on yahoo answers to get peoples opinions.