I am guilty of being one of those mothers who was terrified of SIDS and so I had to have my baby sleeping by side at all times and he is almost 2 now and he has a toddler bed. He will fall asleep on the couch with us at night and then I will put him in his bed, but he wakes up at 3 or 4 am wanting to get in bed with us. My problem is that he can outlast us sometimes at night and I have to make him take naps or he won't and so I am now trying to set bed times and nap time so my husband and I can have some alone time after he falls asleep. This is what I am having a hard time with. Yesterday I took him to his bed and laid him down and said it's time for a nap and I walk out and he keeps getting up, turning on the tv, etc. I have to keep laying him down and telling him and it can go on for awhile. Am I doing this the right way or is there another way? I know I have messed up from the beginning and I am trying to correct it. I have other friends who have kids the same age and they go lay their kids down and tell them to go to sleep and they do. Am I able to fix this?
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