Need serious advice fast, please!?

Question

My sister is one of the worst people I know. She is 6 and I am 15. She is very spoiled, makes my life miserable, and is ungrateful.

She makes up lies, once she came into my room made a mess, and told my mom that I tried attacking her. So I got in trouble.

Every week, she usually gets something for lunch or dinner that she doesn’t like, so she throws a tantrum and my parents give in to her demands and buy or make her something better, which also means that she lives a very unhealthy lifestyle.

Also, whenever she is at the store and sees something she wants, then she will start screaming her lungs out to my parents, so she can get it, one time she got stuff well over a hundred dollars. She has lots of toys, but hasn’t even opened half of them, yet she wants more.

Whenever any guests or relatives come over, they usually buy something for her and not me, and when I complain, they say they will bring something next time.

I don’t ask for much usually, unless it will benefit me, like money for extra swimming lessons, but my parents told me that they will think about it.

When I tried telling my parents that they can’t always get her what she wants, they told me that is none of business and that I should do everything I can to make her happy.

One time she came to my high school, and started crying over something stupid, and it was embarrassing because everyone found out that she was my sister.

I really wish that she went to Africa and learned how tough life in the real world is. I was never spoiled, or had bad behavior when I was her age, I don’t understand how she ended up like this.

Sorry if this was really long, but what should i do with her?

Answer 1

I agree with Rachel but sit them down that way they'll know its serious and prob if you talk to them again they'll realize its not something you can get acustomed to or get over.   good luck

Answer 2

Sweetie you cant do anything. Sorry but its not actually your sister thats the problem its your parents. If shes acting that way they arent parenting her correctly. Good parents have good kids, and if you have a kid whose not good your doing something wrong. You can try to talk to them and that might be a good idea, but if they arent going to hear you out your just going to have to stick it out until your can go to college!

Answer 3

i don't know what advice 2 give u ! i am in da same situation.

i am 16 , my sister is 4 and a half !

she does exactly the same things as your sister !

ignore her and try to concentrate somewhere else !

small sisters r never gonna be good with elder sisters ! it's the universal truth !

Answer 4

There is nothing you can do.  Its your parents' problem and responsability, not yours.  If they want to raise a spoiled child, that's their choice.  They are right, its none of your buisiness.

SInce you know that life isnt easy or handed for free, you will grow into an adult who works hard to earn a decent living for yourself.  You are more likely to go on to college so you can get a good job..  and learn how to manage your finances so you can have a nice house, yard, car, retirement savings etc.

Your sister will grow into the miserable adult who cant figure out why nothing can keep her happy.  She will always be wanting more, things that she cant afford, and most likely end up with ruined credit, and nothing worth calling her own, because instead of financing and budgeting money, she blows it on every little whim and want.  Your parents are doing her no favors by spoiling her and giving everything she wants as a child.  She will find life harder to manage as an adult.

Your parents will regret spoiling when she is a teenager demanding more expensive items like cars, designer clothes, ipods, video games, stereo systems, etc.

Answer 5

Sit down with your parents again and tell them that you're really sick of this behavior and it's not fair that you get treated different than her. If they say it's none of your business tell them it is because you have to deal with her screaming and acting like a spoiled brat.

Sorry I don't have more to say, basically you just need to talk to them (again) and tell them what you feel.

Hope this helped!*  

Answer 6

is she called bethany an does she have blonde hair..?

Answer 7

Just videotape her doing something embarrassing and show too her when she is a little older, so you can keep her in check in the long run.

For now, I would just stay away from her.